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Friday, January 4, 2019

BITTER TO SWEET (a lesson from the waters of Marah)




blogging Exodus 15:22-27
22 So Moses brought Israel from the Red Sea; then they went out into the Wilderness of Shur. And they went three days in the -wilderness and found no water.
23 Now when they came to Marah, they could not drink the waters of Marah, for they were bitter. Therefore the name of it was called Marah.
 24 And the people complained against Moses, saying, “What shall we drink?” 25 So he cried out to the Lord, and the Lord showed him a tree. When he cast it into the waters, the waters were made sweet.
There He made a statute and an ordinance for them, and there He tested them, 26 and said, “If you diligently heed the voice of the Lord your God and do what is right in His sight, give ear to His commandments and keep all His statutes, I will put none of the diseases on you which I have brought on the Egyptians. For I am the Lord who heals you.”
27 Then they came to Elim, where there were twelve wells of water and seventy palm trees; so they camped there by the waters (Exodus 15: 22-27)


After God saved them from Pharaoh’s armies at the Red Sea, the children of Israel were exuberant.  Led by Moses and Miriam, they sang and danced with joy.  They were free, safe, and on their way to a land of milk and honey.  They marched into the desert and kept marching for three days without water, but they didn’t complain.  Finally the dehydrated lines of hopeful Jews  sighted an oasis. But when the first happy Hebrews who outran the company made it to the oasis they discovered water, water everywhere but not a drop that any of them could drink.


  
Now when they came to Marah, they could not drink the waters of Marah, for they were bitter. Therefore the name of it was called Marah.

THEN, they complained.


Sometimes, what breaks a people isn’t the lack of hope; it’s the loss of hope. 

Stay in any bad situation long enough and if the abuse is consistent, you get acclimated. You either convince yourself that it’s not really that bad, or you rationalize the pain as the acceptable price for whatever good you draw out of your life, OR you tell yourself that salvation is coming.  You just have to hold on until your change comes.   So you don’t complain. 

But if rescue shows up and then leaves without you, if escape is in your grasp but slips away, if you experience the fulness of real hope that turns to disappointment ---- it’s enough to sever one’s sanity.

Israel didn’t complain during the long, dry walk in the desert.  They held onto hope.  But when the water turned t out to be undrinkable, when hope turned to disappointment, they snapped.

And the people complained against Moses, saying, “What shall we drink?” 

Their hopes had been raised and dashed and they were so angry, so bitter that they named the location Marah which means “bitter.”


Undrinkable water after 3 days with no water is a major problem.  But, the presence of a problem isn’t a problem; only the absence of a solution is a problem.

You may have gotten the job you prayed for and found yourself in a bitter work environment. 
You may be in the marriage God ordained for you but not be quite as happy as you’d dreamed. 
You may have been born again by the redeeming power of Jesus but temptation and trouble is stealing the peace you were promised.
The blessing for which you’d hope may have turned out to be so much trouble that you feel bitter.

Now look to God and let Him direct your path and your line of sight.  What does God see in your situation that you don’t? 


At the waters of Marah, Moses set his attention on God.  So he cried out to the Lord, and the Lord showed him a tree. When he cast it into the waters, the waters were made sweet.


By itself, the water was another problem, but God hadn’t only provided a spring. He’d also provided a tree, and taken together, the water-tree combination wasn’t a problem.  It was a solution, a sweet, sweet solution for every thirsty every man, woman, child, and animal among the children of Israel. 

What does God want to show you in your situation that you hadn’t noticed because you were so absorbed by the problem? 

Let go of your bitterness and give your attention to the Savior who brought you this far.  Let God redirect your focus to include the full package He has provided.  

See the opportunities that all those conniving coworkers unwittingly leave on the table for you because they’re too busy playing social games.  See the ways you can grow   into your best self when you stop expecting your spouse to MAKE happy (which is the same as expecting your spouse to make you be happy).  See on the banks of the living waters of your salvation the tree of A life that you can live now, positively doing greater works instead of passively waiting for God to remake the world around you.

Maybe the ingredients for turning your bitter situation into a sweet blessing are already available.  Maybe they’ve always been available.  Maybe you just need to let God show you what you’ve been overlooking.


That would be pretty sweet, huh?

Romans 5:5  Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us.
  
---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Bailey Tabernacle CME Church in Tuscaloosa, Alabama. He writes the popular blog: A Word to the Wise at www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com

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Sunday, February 7, 2016

THE SOLUTION (Cause & Effect part 2 of 2)

How do you rebuild a community, a family, or a life that’s been in ruins so long that brokenness seems normal.  Can it even be done?  Well, Nehemiah did it.  He returned to a community that had been in decay for 140 year and in just 52 days rebuilt their identity, dignity, and destiny. 

We can do the same, if we learn the lessons of Nehemiah applied.  Here is the closing part of the two-part message on cause and effect.  The sermon is called: THE SOLUTION.

Listen well.

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---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Miles Chapel CME Church in Fairfield, Alabama;  executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO);  and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).

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Sunday, July 6, 2014

YOU CAN’T SOLVE A PERMANENT PROBLEM WITH A TEMPORARY SOLUTION

What does it take to transform a free and favored people into a nation of slaves?  How do so many of our best and most intentioned ideas leave behind more problems than they’d solved?  Are there any lasting answers?  Are there any real remedies for the distress in our nation, our communities, our families, and our individual lives?


Discover the answers in a message called : YOU CAN’T SOLVE A PERMANENT PROBLEM WITH A TEMPORARY SOLUTION


Listen well.

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer, and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church and the executive director of SAYNO (Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization) in Montgomery, Alabama.

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Thursday, April 17, 2014

A TALE OF TWO STORIES

There is a story of the hard-working single mother who pursued an education, built a career, and is doing everything she can to raise a good young man.  All she asks for is the help of mentors to offset the missing father who refused to honor his responsibilities.

There is a story of the unemployed, never-employed single mother with a toddler in tow, an infant on her hip, and another on the way---- all by different men.  She is doing nothing for herself and has no plans to do so, but she expects everyone else to help her and rescue her from each new self-inflicted crisis.

Both stories are true. 

I know each of these women personally.  They call on me in the same week, sometimes on the same day.  They were the same age during their first pregnancy.  They grew up in the same cities.  They come out of the same neighborhoods.  On the way to school, the walked past the same churches.  They ride past the same community centers on the way to the same Walmart.

An honest reading of statistics prove that these sisters simultaneously exist.

But statistics do not move people to action.  STORIES move people to action.  

The steps you take or don’t, the policies you support and oppose, the way you look at every single parent or the way you avert your eyes from them are all based on which of these 2 sisters’ stories you choose to represent every other woman with a child and no husband.

Both stories are true, but most of you will choose to believe only one.

Which one?

Doesn’t matter because no matter which story you choose, you’ll be wrong.

It’s not as simple as one story.  The truth is more than one story, and an honest reading of the statistics proves that both stories and a multitude of other stories are all simultaneously true.

But we still choose just ONE STORY.  

Some people actually get mad when they’re faced with a different story than the one they chose to believe. 
“That’s not true.”
“Your survey was biased.”
“Your math is fuzzy.”
“Well you’re just one.  Nobody else is like that.”
“Well, well, I.  I just don’t believe that.”

But the stories are all true.

It was true that the Samaritan woman at the well in John chapter 4 was shacking with man #5 (Or was it man #6 after husband #5?). It was simultaneously true that she was the one God arranged to be the first Samaritan to hear the gospel----one on one, directly from Jesus----and to be the original Samaritan evangelist.

It was true that the woman whom the Pharisees dragged before Jesus in John chapter 8 was co-guilty of adultery.  It was simultaneously true that her accusers were guilty of stuff equally bad or worse.  It was true that she needed to stop sinning.  It was simultaneously true that she didn’t need to be condemned and killed.

And Jesus said to her, “Neither do I condemn you; go and sin no more.” (John 8: 1)

Year after year, our churches, our government, our schools,  and all our various efforts FAIL to solve the same problems because we apply ONE STORY solutions.

It’s easier.  Pre-packaged, “research based” programs are basically one-story solutions. 

It’s reasonable.  No human approach can possibly anticipate every variation of the story.

But it’s dishonest.  Pretending that the best practice in every case has to come from your chosen story is an exercise in self-deception. 

If I reply to the second sister I talked about from the same script I use with the first sister, or vice versa--- I’m going to achieve nothing good.  Even less if I insist that the 1st sister is really the same person as the 2nd, or vice versa, and ought to stop pretending and “keep it real.”

Both stories are true.

Think about which story you believe.  Not just which story of a single mother, but which story you believe about “those people” (whomever those people are).   You’ve heard the other stories.  Yes, you have; but you haven’t believed them.

Why?

I know it’s easier.
I know it’s reasonable.

But is it honest?

Don’t reduce an entire demographic to ONE STORY.

Jesus didn’t. 

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church in Montgomery, Alabama, executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO) and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).

Email atgravestwo2@aol.com
To listen to sermons and learn more about the ministry at Hall Memorial CME Church, visit www.hallmemorialcme.blogspot.com .

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Sunday, June 9, 2013

CONFUSION or REVIVAL?

The problem is, there’s just so much CONFUSION!

If you want to know the solution, and the process that makes the solution work, then listen to a message delivered as the prelude to a different kind of Revival at Hall Memorial CME Church.

Be warned, this Word was not sent to make you feel comfortable.

CONFUSION OR REVIVAL?

Listen well.

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---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church in Montgomery, Alabama.

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Sunday, December 16, 2012

READ THE FOLLOWING

Read the following and tell me that there's not something truly, deeply wrong with something fundamental in this country.

Read the following and tell me that it's not something deeper than poverty or race or education or the placement of community centers.

Read the following and tell me that it isn't time to talk about everything, including all of the things that we've been saying we can't talk about.

Saturday, December 15, 2012. A gunman opened fire at St. Vincent’s hospital in Birmingham, wounding 3 people before being killed by police.

Saturday, December 15, 2012.  East of Birmingham, a man armed with an AK-47 assault rifle killed 3 people and injured a child who was under 2 years old, in Cleburne County near the Georgia state line. Police shot and killed the man after pursuit.

On Friday, December 14, 2012, 28 people, including the gunmen were reportedly shot and killed at Sandy Hook elementary school in Newtown, CT. 20 of these casualties were children.

Friday, December 14, 2012.  In Homewood, a 30-year-old woman and her two sons, ages 4 and 5, were found murdered in their apartment.

Tuesday, December 11 2012. A gunman opened fire in an Oregon shopping mall, killing 2.

December 11, of this same week,  22-year-old Jacob Tyler Roberts killed 2 people and himself with a stolen rifle in Clackamas Town Center, Oregon. His motive is unknown.

September 27, 2012. Five were shot to death by 36-year-old Andrew Engeldinger at Accent Signage Systems in Minneapolis, MN. Three others were wounded. Engeldinger went on a rampage after losing his job, ultimately killing himself.

August 5, 2012. Six Sikh temple members were killed when 40-year-old US Army veteran Wade Michael Page opened fire in a gurdwara in Oak Creek, Wisconsin. Four others were injured, and Page killed himself.

July 20, 2012. During the midnight premiere of The Dark Knight Rises in Aurora, CO, 24-year-old James Holmes killed 12 people and wounded 58. Holmes was arrested outside the theater.

May 29, 2012. Ian Stawicki opened fire on Cafe Racer Espresso in Seattle, WA, killing 5 and himself after a citywide manhunt.

April 6, 2012. Jake England, 19, and Alvin Watts, 32, shot 5 black men in Tulsa, Oklahoma, in racially motivated shooting spree. Three died.

April 2, 2012. A former student, 43-year-old One L. Goh killed 7 people at Oikos University, a Korean Christian college in Oakland, CA. The shooting was the sixth-deadliest school massacre in the US and the deadliest attack on a school since the 2007 Virginia Tech massacre.
 
And that's just the list from this spring till now.
---Anderson T. Graves II   is a pastor, writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.
Call me at 334-288-0577
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If you want to be a blessing to this ministry, contributions may be made by check or money order.
Mail all contributions to :
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