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Wednesday, August 13, 2014

HELPING PEOPLE IS SO UNFAIR


As of yesterday, the Ebola virus outbreak in northern Africa had claimed over a thousand lives.  Two of the thousands infected were American health workers who were in Africa to help.  When they got sick they were flown back to the United States and treated at Emory Univesity Hospital in coordination with the Center for Disease Control (CDC) laboratories in Atlanta.  The experimental drugs used on those 2 Americans worked!  They got better.

That’s great news, except----the international community led the World Health Organization (WHO) has been telling Africans that going to a health care center in their home country will help them fight Ebola. Now the Africans see that the Americans didn’t stay at the health care center in Africa.  They left and got better.   

Africans are being told that they are receiving the best possible care for an incurable virus.  But, it sure sounds like the Americans got better care and a cure.  It’s not fair.

I don’t believe that there is a conspiracy.  I don’t think this is racism or elitism.  I think that it’s the constant dilemma for every full-time do-gooder like the World Health Organization (WHO), hospital, non-profits, ministries, and me.

Depending on how you look at it, doing good can look really bad.

The WHO doesn’t have enough of those experimental drugs to give to all the affected people in north Africa.  So, now they have to choose who gets the most promising treatment.  They could protect the health care workers who are there to help and deserve to be protected.  But what’ll it look like when the foreigners stay healthy while Africans get sicker and die?

Oh, and the drugs haven’t been fully tested.  Nobody knows it the treatments will work without side effect or if the drugs will kill every third person. 

What if it causes sterility or horrible birth defects?  What if it doesn’t work in the north African climate?  Will the people of Africa believe that it was an honest mistake, or will they decide that it’s another in the long line of real Western conspiracies to destroy and destabilize African nations?

The WHO and every other person and organization that’s out there doing good in the world must decide whether the help they can give right now will do more good or more harm.    But even when you use your very best judgment---- how do you predict how people will perceive your decision?

As for the last question, the answer is:  You can’t.

Depending on how you look at it, doing good can look really bad.

In John 11, Jesus raised his friend Lazarus from the dead.  Jesus performed that miracle in a graveyard full of other people’s dead friends, brothers, and loved ones.  Yet, Jesus only resurrected Lazarus.

Don’t you think some other grieving person thought that was unfair?

In Mark 5: 24-34, a huge crowd surrounded Jesus including all kinds of sick people .  One lady was instantly cured by touching the hem of Jesus’ garment. 

And Jesus, immediately knowing in Himself that power had gone out of Him, turned around in the crowd and said, “Who touched My clothes?”
But His disciples said to Him, “You see the multitude thronging You, and You say, ‘Who touched Me?’ ” (Mark 5: 30-31

The disciples knew that a bunch of people were touching Jesus and His clothes.  But, only one of them got healed.

How unfair does that look?

Why her?  Why not me or my sick friend?

Our human resources are limited.  No matter how altruistic our hearts, we have to make difficult but firm decision about whom and how to help, which means deciding whom and how NOT to help. 

And no matter what you decide, no matter how wisely you judge, no matter how lovingly and unprejudicially you select--- you’re going to hurt somebody, and you’re going to piss somebody off.
Jesus spoke to that when He referenced the Old Testament outreach of the prophets Elijah an Elisha.

But I tell you truly, many widows were in Israel in the days of Elijah, when the heaven was shut up three years and six months, and there was a great famine throughout all the land; but to none of them was Elijah sent except to Zarephath, in the region of Sidon, to a woman who was a widow.
And many lepers were in Israel in the time of Elisha the prophet, and none of them was cleansed except Naaman the Syrian.” (Luke 4: 25-27)

And Jesus audience (in church) responded like people respond today.
So all those in the synagogue, when they heard these things, were filled with wrath and rose up and thrust Him out of the city; and they led Him to the brow of the hill on which their city was built, that they might throw Him down over the cliff.  (Luke 4: 27, 28)

(Oh, and isn’t it interesting that one of the statements that made the worshippers mad enough to throw Jesus off a cliff was the story of a prophet going way over yonder to help a foreigner and single mother “while there are all these needs right here at home.”)

You won’t help everybody.  You CAN’T help everybody. 

That’s a fact, but not an excuse.

Jesus never said, “It isn’t time to heal every sickness so I’m not going heal any.”

If a brother or sister is naked and destitute of daily food, and one of you says to them, “Depart in peace, be warmed and filled,” but you do not give them the things which are needed for the body, what does it profit?  Thus also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead. (James 2: 15-17)

Help everybody you can.

But, you can’t help everybody.  And, you won’t please everybody.

Don’t kill yourself inside over the limitations of your resources.  Increase your capacity as you can, but accept that no matter how much good you intend, no matter how much good you actually do---- it’ll look bad to somebody.

Do good anyway.

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Miles Chapel CME Church (5220 Myron Massey Boulevard) in Fairfield, Alabama;  executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO);  and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).

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