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Sunday, April 19, 2015

MEN & WOMEN MOVING ON FAITH IN CHANGING TIMES

My, how times have changed.  In the days of the Judges in ancient Israel God’s people found themselves oppressed by enemies they should have defeated long before.  Men and women debated their roles as leaders in the time of crisis.  The people of God were under pressure to compromise with the culture.  The worship of God based on His written Word was in peril.

Well maybe times haven’t changed that much.

Find out how men and women of faith overcame insurmountable odds in the time of Judges and how their victory shows the path for ours.  The message is about MEN & WOMEN MOVING ON FAITH IN CHANGING TIMES.


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---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Miles Chapel CME Church in Fairfield, Alabama;  executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO);  and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).

Subscribe to my personal blog  www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com .

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Tuesday, October 28, 2014

JOB! WHY?

I’ve read the book of Job repeatedly, in  multiple translations.  I’ve studied commentaries on it.  I made my iPad and my phone read it to me.  I’ve preached on parts of it, but…I could never see a satisfactory reason for God doing Job like He did him. 

Yeah, I know all the super-pious clichés about “mysterious ways” and what’s “not for us to know,” but why, I’d always wondered, would God deliver a 42 chapter story with more dialogue than the gospels (which contain Jesus’ dialogue) if the moral of the story was, “None of your business”?   That’s a loooot of space for “None of your business.”

But this week in Sunday School at Miles Chapel CME Church, the Holy Spirit showed us.  It’s the difference between CONFESSION and REPENTANCE.

In the final chapter, after God had just verbally spanked Job, the Lord turned to the head of the little delegation of friends who’d been arguing with Job since chapter 4.

The Lord said to Eliphaz the Temanite, “My wrath is aroused against you and your two friends  (Job 42: 7)

Class, how many friends came to visit Job?

The answer is 4.

Four.

Eliphaz, Bildad, and Zophar came over while Job was depressed and self-cutting in a pile of burned trash.  But somehere around chapter 32, a guy named Elihu showed up.  He was late, but he was young. (Now, kids, being young is no excuse for lack of punctuality.) 

Elihu thought of Job and the other 3 guys as mentors (Job 32: 6, 7), but he was seriously disappointed that none of his role models had given a satisfactory answer to Job or gotten one out of him (Job 32: 3).  In Elihu’s eyes, the 3 other dudes had condemned Job without a conviction.  And so Elihu went off on Eliphaz, Bildad, Zophar, but mainly Job----- for 5 chapters straight.

Job never replied to Elihu.  He didn’t get the chance, because the next voice we hear after Elihu’s argument is God ripping Job a new one in chapter 37.

Oh, here’s the thing.  Remember, God rebuked the THREE friends because their theology was wrong.   The Lord said to Eliphaz the Temanite, “My wrath is aroused against you and your two friends, for you have not spoken of Me what is right (Job 42: 7)  Chapters 37-41 was God rebuking Job for coming at Him wrong.  But God just let Elihu-------- go.

Because Elihu WAS RIGHT.

Eliphaz, Bildad, and Zophar assumed that Job must have done some wrong thing for God to send the tsunami of tragedy that had washed over his life. So, they argued and argued trying to verbally beat a confession out of Job.  A CONFESSION. 

They wanted Job to name the sin he had committed.  

But Job had not done any thing wrong.  He had no sins to confess.  God Himself called Job a blameless man like none on the earth, a blameless and upright man, one who fears God and shuns evil (Job 1: 8)

Whatever you and I may speculate Job used to be, by the time his book started, Job was living right.    

Period.  Nope.  That’s what the Book says.

Job didn’t need to confess.  The 3 musketeers were wrong.

Elihu was the only one of the 4 friends to say the right thing about God. Elihu said: For God is greater than man. (Job 33: 12)

Moreover Elihu answered and said: “Do you think this is right? Do you say, ‘My righteousness is more than God’s’?  (Job 35: 1,2,)

Elihu didn’t accuse Job of incurring God’s wrath for doing some wrong thing.  Elihu simply said that compared to God, Job wasn’t righteous.   Elihu argued that regardless of whether Job had or had not committed an explicit sin according to the pre-Mosaic law, Job had developed a seriously over-inflated sense of his own goodness.

If you sin, what do you accomplish against God? Or, if your transgressions are multiplied, what do you do to Him? If you are righteous, what do you give Him? Or what does He receive from your hand?  (Job 35: 6-7)

I’ll concede that Elihu was kinda iffy about whether Job really was as sin-free as he insisted. 

Take heed, do not turn to iniquity, For you have chosen this rather than affliction. (Job 36: 21)

But that was after Job had basically said that it didn’t matter whether he was good or bad since God was gonna hurt him anyway (Job 10: 15).

Job’s problem wasn’t the absence of CONFESSION.  Job’s problem was a lack of REPENTANCE.

The Sunday school lesson for October 26, 2014 quoted C.S. Lewis’ explanation of REPENTANCE.

“Lewis said that we are not simply imperfect creatures who need improvement; we are rebels who must lay down our arms:, ‘Laying down your arms, surrendering, saying you are sorry, realizing that you have been on the wrong track and getting ready to start life over again from the gound floor.’
This process of surrender is what we call repentance… ‘Repentance… is not something God demands of you before He will take you back  and which He could let you off if He chose:  it is simply a description of what going back to Him is like.’ “

See?

Confession is about our actions.  Repentance is about our selves: our status as human being born in sin, shaped in iniquity, and prone to screw up at any moment; standing in the light of God who is holy and perfect in every way.  We confess because we’ve DONE wrong.  We repent because we ARE wrong.

When an army loses a war, all the soldiers surrender, even the ones who were just drafted and never got to fire a shot in combat. They all recognize their lost state and lay down their arms.

Job wanted to fight with God instead of lay down his arms and surrender.

Job believed that if God would play fair, then he could argue the Lord into submission.  
For He is not a man, as I am, That I may answer Him, And that we should go to court together. Nor is there any mediator between us, Who may lay his hand on us both. (Job 9: 32-33)

But I would speak to the Almighty, and I desire to reason with God. (Job 13: 3)

That’s not surrender.  That’s not submission.  That is UN-REPENTANCE.

In chapter 29, Job described the one in whose presence,
the young men saw ..and hid,
And the aged arose and stood;
…The voice of nobles was hushed,
And their tongue stuck to the roof of their mouth.
When the ear heard, then it blessed …
And when the eye saw, then it approved …
Because [that one ] delivered the poor who cried out,
The fatherless and the one who had no helper.
The blessing of a perishing man came upon [him]
And caused the widow’s heart to sing for joy.
[He] put on righteousness …
justice was like a robe and a turban.
[He] was eyes to the blind,
And was feet to the lame.
..a father to the poor,
…broke the fangs of the wicked,
And plucked the victim from his teeth.  (verses 7-17, edited)

Reads like a Psalm to God, doesn’t it?   Only, Job wasn’t talking about God.  Job was talking about Job.

Yeah.

Isaiah hadn’t been written at the time of Job’s story, but the principle was already true.  Compared to God, we are all like an unclean thing, And all our righteousnesses are like filthy rags; We all fade as a leaf, And our iniquities, like the wind, Have taken us away. (Isaiah 64: 6)

Job wouldn’t have thought that verse applied to HIM.  Job thought more of himself than he ought.

And God knew it.

Why did God let the devil reach into Job’s life---- this time?  Satan had tried to get at Job before, but God’s “hedge” kept him back.  So why did God let satan through--- this time?

God didn't just let the devil sneak through, God provoked satan to take another shot at Job.

And the Lord said to Satan, “From where do you come?”
So Satan answered the Lord and said, “From going to and fro on the earth, and from walking back and forth on it.”
Then the Lord said to Satan, “Have you considered My servant Job, that there is none like him on the earth, a blameless and upright man, one who fears God and shuns evil?”  (Job 1: 7-8)

Apparently, the devil had given up on Job and was looking for easier targets, but God basically dared the devil to mess with the man who was blameless like no other.

It’s like God saw something at that particular moment in Job’s life that required (pardon the pun) a Hell of a response.

Never forget that God understands us, our situation, and our needs better than we do.  And, never forget that God understands us, our situation, and our needs better than the devil does.

While satan was trying to get Job to abandon God, God was using the suffering satan delivered to draw Job even closer.

The devil meant it for evil, but God meant it for good.

Oh, but what about all the other people who suffered?  Job’s employees and children who were killed.  Job’s wife who experienced the death of all her babies, the loss of all her money (her husband’s money was her money, too--- at least according to my wife), and the sudden decline of her husband’s health.    

That part, the Bible doesn’t answer directly.  But the Bible does provide an answer in principle that’s a little better than “none of your business.”

The answer is: Faith.

Not just saving faith but living faith.  Faith (as the examples in Hebrews 11 demonstrate) is trusting that God knows what the crap He’s doing in our lives and in everyone else’s life, too.   

We aren’t told the details of Job’s children’s lives.  We don’t know their righteousness or sinfulness.  We know they were all adult enough to be at a house party thrown by the oldest brother (Job 1: 18, 19), and we know that Job was concerned enough about their lifestyles to worry that they might curse God in their hearts.  Worried enough to do make that sacrifice EVERY DAY (Job 1: 5). 

We do know, by the testimony of God’s Word, which we believe by FAITH, that God God knows and understands, and that He uses even tragedy to make all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose (Romans 8: 28).

Left alone behind an unbroken hedge of favor and prosperity, Job would have continued exalting himself in his heart until he began to justify himself to himself.  And that’s the point at which “good, successful” believers begin to sin and think it’s all right.

Once you think that you wear righteousness and justice like a robe and a turban; you’re not very far away from using your wealth, power, and religious cover to do something terrible.

Just look around.  “Preachers of L.A.”   Catholic sex abuses.  Pastoral scandals. 

As good as good Job was, how bad would a rich, evil Job with 10 grown, rich, and evil children have been?

In the end, from the very beginning of the story, God saved not only Job, but countless others.  BECAUSE GOD LOVED THEM.

God loved Job, Eliphaz, Bildad, Zophar, Elihu, Job’s wife, Job’s relatives, and Job’s community so much that He was willing to pick a fight with the devil to save Job from the darkness of self-righteousness and bring him back to repentance.

For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come,  nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

When Job came to repentance, God restored and doubled his wealth, his influence, and his position in the community.  God restored Job’s relationships with his wife (cause they had 10 more children) and his children (now with the hindsight to raise them better).  Most importantly, God returned Job to a place of spiritual favor, so that Job was God’s preferred intercessor on behalf of the 3 theologically wrong-minded friends.

My servant Job shall pray for you. For I will accept him, lest I deal with you according to your folly; because you have not spoken of Me what is right, as My servant Job has. (Job 42:8)

Job finally spoke the thing of God that was right.  The last words of Job in his book are: I have heard of You by the hearing of the ear, but now my eye sees You. Therefore I abhor myself, And REPENT in dust and ashes. (Job 42: 5-6)

Job got it and now I finally get it.

REPENTANCE.

Trust God, and never forget that God is God, and you and I are not.

p.s. I bet that when the devil realized how God had played him, he was pissed.

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Miles Chapel CME Church in Fairfield, Alabama;  executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO);  and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).

Subscribe to my personal blog  www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com .

Email atgravestwo2@aol.com

You can help support this ministry with a donation to Miles Chapel CME Church.

You can help support Rev. Graves’ work by visiting his personal blog and clicking the DONATE button on the right-hand sidebar.

Support by check or money order may be mailed to 
Miles Chapel CME Church
P O Box 132

 Fairfield, Al 35064

Monday, October 14, 2013

A WORD TO THE WISE. Proverbs 31: 29 "We're Number 1!"

Proverbs 31: 29     “Many daughters have done well, But you excel them all.”

Proverbs 31: 29.  Marriage should be like a losing football team in Alabama. 

(Stay with me on this.)

In Alabama, football is almost like a religion.  People cheer by faith, not by sight.

Walk into any business or gathering  in the state and you will find people passionately arguing that their team is in fact the best team in the country, even if all empirical, observational, and statistical data indicates that their team sucks.     Any given Friday, Saturday, Sunday, or Monday, men and women can be heard shouting, “We’re number 1!” even when their team is ranked at the bottom.

In Alabama football, your belief in your team’s greatness, in your team’s superiority to all other teams really has very little to do with anything other than this one factor:  They are YOUR team.
 
And that, according to Proverbs 31: 29 is how marriage should be.

Proverbs chapter 31, verses 10-31 is a series of statements about the Virtuous Woman.  Each of those verses relates a wise and objective principle about women in general.  All except verse 29.

Verse 29 changes from the 3rd person “she” to the 1st person “you.”  This change in pronouns means that King Lemuel isn’t just generally talking ABOUT women, he is talking TO HIS woman.

And Lemuel tells his woman, “Baby, you’re number 1!”

 Lemuel concedes that his queen isn’t the only woman whose children rise and call her blessed.     She isn’t the only wife whose husband safely trusts her.  She probably isn’t the best at negotiating real estate deals, and cooking breakfast, and spinning cloth.  Statistically speaking there are certain to be more chartable women somewhere.  On an empirical scale, Lemuel’s wife might not even be in the top 10 of Proverbs 31 women.
But Lemuel doesn’t care about all that “evidence” anymore than a die-hard Auburn University fan cares what the NCAA or the SEC say about their team.  Auburn fans still shout “War Eagle!”  Auburn fans still declare and decree that “We’re number 1!”

Why?  Because it’s their team.

King Lemuel is his queen’s #1, ride-or-die fan

A husband and wife have to be each other’s #1.  He’s your #1, and you’re his #1 fan.  She’s your #1, and you’re her #1 fan.

No matter how good your mama’s fried chicken is, your wife’s chicken is #1. 

When the 6-pack of abs turns into a case of rolls, it’s still “Baby, you’re the best!”    

When them other chicks drop hints about how much more they’d appreciate a man like you, you don’t switch teams.  You hold up your ring finger and tell ‘em, “This is my team.  Ride or die. We’re number 1!”

Many other daughters have done well.  Yea.  Yea. Yea.  Whatever.   Baby, you’re #1!

WE’RE #1!

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church in Montgomery, Alabama, executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO) and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).


To hear sermons, read devotions, and learn more about the ministry at Hall Memorial CME Church, visit www.hallmemorialcme.blogspot.com .

You can read more on Pastor Graves's personal blog at www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com  .

If this message helps or touches you, please help support this ministry. Send a donation of any amount by check or money order.
Mail all contributions to :
Hall Memorial CME Church
541 Seibles Road
Montgomery, AL 36116

Proverbs 31: 29 "WE'RE NUMBER 1!"

Proverbs 31: 29     “Many daughters have done well, But you excel them all.”

Proverbs 31: 29.  Marriage should be like a losing football team in Alabama. 

(Stay with me on this.)

In Alabama, football is almost like a religion.  People cheer by faith, not by sight.

Walk into any business or gathering  in the state and you will find people passionately arguing that their team is in fact the best team in the country, even if all empirical, observational, and statistical data indicates that their team sucks.     Any given Friday, Saturday, Sunday, or Monday, men and women can be heard shouting, “We’re number 1!” even when their team is ranked at the bottom.

In Alabama football, your belief in your team’s greatness, in your team’s superiority to all other teams really has very little to do with anything other than this one factor:  They are YOUR team.
 
And that, according to Proverbs 31: 29 is how marriage should be.

Proverbs chapter 31, verses 10-31 is a series of statements about the Virtuous Woman.  Each of those verses relates a wise and objective principle about women in general.  All except verse 29.

Verse 29 changes from the 3rd person “she” to the 1st person “you.”  This change in pronouns means that King Lemuel isn’t just generally talking ABOUT women, he is talking TO HIS woman.

And Lemuel tells his woman, “Baby, you’re number 1!”

 Lemuel concedes that his queen isn’t the only woman whose children rise and call her blessed.     She isn’t the only wife whose husband safely trusts her.  She probably isn’t the best at negotiating real estate deals, and cooking breakfast, and spinning cloth.  Statistically speaking there are certain to be more chartable women somewhere.  On an empirical scale, Lemuel’s wife might not even be in the top 10 of Proverbs 31 women.
But Lemuel doesn’t care about all that “evidence” anymore than a die-hard Auburn University fan cares what the NCAA or the SEC say about their team.  Auburn fans still shout “War Eagle!”  Auburn fans still declare and decree that “We’re number 1!”

Why?  Because it’s their team.

King Lemuel is his queen’s #1, ride-or-die fan.

A husband and wife have to be each other’s #1.  He’s your #1, and you’re his #1 fan.  She’s your #1, and you’re her #1 fan.

No matter how good your mama’s fried chicken is, your wife’s chicken is #1. 

When the 6-pack of abs turns into a case of rolls, it’s still “Baby, you’re the best!”    

When them other chicks drop hints about how much more they’d appreciate a man like you, you don’t switch teams.  You hold up your ring finger and tell ‘em, “This is my team.  Ride or die. We’re number 1!”

Many other daughters have done well.  Yea.  Yea. Yea.  Whatever.   Baby, you’re #1!

WE’RE #1!

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church in Montgomery, Alabama, executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO) and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).


To hear sermons, read devotions, and learn more about the ministry at Hall Memorial CME Church, visit www.hallmemorialcme.blogspot.com .

You can read more on Pastor Graves's personal blog at www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com  .

If this message helps or touches you, please help support this ministry. Send a donation of any amount by check or money order.
Mail all contributions to :
Hall Memorial CME Church
541 Seibles Road
Montgomery, AL 36116

Monday, April 22, 2013

Proverbs 30:15. "Unleeched"

Proverbs 30: 15     The leech has two daughters— Give and Give!
There are three things that are never satisfied; four never say, “Enough!”:
16     The grave, The barren womb, The earth that is not satisfied with water— And the fire never says, “Enough!”

Proverbs 30: 15, 16.  “Give me.”    “Help me.”

People use these statements interchangeably, but they are very, very different.  Different in DEFINITION.  And different in DEFINING.

“Help me” can mean “HELP me.”  Work with me.  Teach me what I didn’t know before I put myself in this situation.  Show me what I had not seen so that I don’t end up like this again.  Contribute whatever or however you choose to, but hold me ultimately responsible.  Please, HELP me be more responsible. 

But, the phrase “Help me” can also be defined as “gimme.”  Gimme what I want.  Handle it so I don’t have to.  Release me from responsibility for my actions and circumstances.  Gimme, and then be ready to gimme some more.

What matters isn’t the words, but the DEFINITION/ the meaning behind the words.  Titles and terminology can be a disguise but the real DEFINITION behind what comes out of our mouths will soon show.

Differences in DEFINITION are important, but what’s more important are the differences in DEFINING.

In Matthew 7: 15-20, Jesus said that a tree, a prophet, or a person is DEFINED by the fruit he/she bears.  It is our fruit/actions/output that DEFINES us.

So, if what comes out of you is always “Gimme.  Gimme,” then according to the definition in Proverbs 30: 15, you are A LEECH.

You’re not a victim.  You’re not a little down on your luck.  You may say “all I need is a little help,” but if your idea of help is somebody else handing you money while you do nothing more or different------ God says that you’re A LEECH.

Rev., that’s harsh.

Bro., that’s Bible.

Leeches suck the life out of their host, pausing their consumption only long enough to reproduce.  Other than that a leech will drink until it dies, or the host does.

The grave never says, “Enough death.”

The barren womb is never filled.

The parched earth does not believe that it will ever get enough rain.

The fire never reaches more fuel and stops because it has consumed enough.

So it is with the leech, whether animal or human.   He doesn’t know when to quit taking.  She doesn’t know how to stop begging. 

Consider yourself:
1.      When they tell you that you’re asking for their last, do you ask anyway?

2.      Will you really change the way you live to get the help you need, or do you keep saying “I’m doing good, I just can’t pay my bills  (again)”?

3.      Do you believe that sacrifice now will reward you later, or do you feel like you have to ball while you can because “I ain’t never gone have nothing anyway”?

If the description fits, there is a reason why your life sucks.

You’re a leech.

But wait. 

You don’t have to stay that way.  You can be unleeched.

God can remove the consuming character from fire, like He did for Shadrach, Meshach, and Abengo (Daniel 3).

God can send rain on land that has known only drought for years, like He did through Elijah(1 Kings 18: 41-45).

God can speak life into the barren womb, just like He did for Sarah (Genesis 21: 1-7).

God can command the grave to give up its prey, as He did when He called Lazarus forth (John 11).

The Lord can make that which is never satisfied declare “Enough.”  God can unleech you.

Stop making excuses.  Stop waiting for someone else to give you something else.  Stop living a life that sucks.

Submit to God.  Give yourself to Jesus.  Walk according to the Living Word.  Be transformed.  

Be UNLEECHED.

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church in Montgomery, Alabama.

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