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Monday, November 7, 2016

From John chapter 17, the title of sermon is WHEN GOD PRAYS FOR YOU.


Listen well.

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---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Miles Chapel CME Church in Fairfield, Alabama;  executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO);  and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).

Subscribe to my personal blog  www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com .

Email atgravestwo2@aol.com
Follow me on twitter @AndersonTGraves  #Awordtothewise 

You can help support this ministry with a donation to Miles Chapel CME Church.

You can help support Rev. Graves’ work by visiting his personal blog and clicking the DONATE button on the right-hand sidebar.

Support by check or money order may be mailed to 
Miles Chapel CME Church
P O Box 132

Fairfield, Al 35064

Friday, November 4, 2016

FAR FROM ME, NOT FAR FROM US


My son was with me when I walked into the Montgomery County Jail yesterday.  I had to get him to a doctor’s appointment, but  I also needed to check on one of the cyclically homeless guys I work with in town.  I timed checking Anderson out of school so I could do both before I went in to the SAYNO office for my other, other jobSome dads make you wait in the car while they grab donuts for the office.  A pastor’s teen son waits in the lobby of the Sheriff’s department while he goes back to chat with an inmate. .  Anderson wasn’t fazed. 

I had the conversation, checked on my client’s  status.  No, not my client.  What’s the word for people you pastor who aren’t members of your church and live 4 counties away from your congregation?  Well I checked on one of those guys and was back in the detention center lobby on schedule to drive my son across town to the doctor.  And that’s when the whole day went nuts.

Anderson handed me my phone (he held onto it while I was in the visiting area), and nonchalantly remarked, “Mom texted you.”

The text from my wife, his mother, which he had read, and replied to, the text which he pointed out with zero sense of urgency said:  KAITLIN’S CAR BROKE DOWN SOMEWHERE ON THE SIDE OF THE ROAD IM ON MY WAY TO GET HER.

Whuuuut!?

Our daughter Kaitlin is in college in another state.  She was driving home from Mississippi for the weekend.

Now I’m thinking:  When was this? Side of what road?  “Broke down” how?  Is the car on fire?  Is Kaiitlin on fire?  How far down the road is Sheila?  Why da’ crap didn’t this boy tell the officers to come get me?

My baby girl was stranded, alone in another state, visible and vulnerable to all of the things fathers don’t want to think about.  Long story, short, I drove 3 hours to Mississippi yesterday and 3 hours back.

I’m from Mississippi so I called my family, explained Kaitlin’s situation and set them to it.  By the time the tow truck unhitched Kaitlin’s car, my brother-in-law had someone waiting in Meridian to pick her up and make sure she got something to eat.  Shortly after that my mom and my older sister arrived to drive Kaitlin around, lift her spirits, and watch her back. In the meantime, Sheila had gotten Anderson to the doctor and checked back in to school.  Hours later, when my tires squealed to a stop in Meridian, the not-quite panic-but-definitely-tears I’d heard over the sound of 18 wheelers passing too close to Kaitlin’s stalled vehicle had been transformed into a relaxed smile and the sweet, smart sarcasm that my daughter gets from me. 

I love my children.  I’d charge Hell with a pocketknife and a water gun if that’s
what it took to protect them.  But, yesterday I faced how incapable I am of protecting them  .  . . alone.


Jesus was Mary’s firstborn son.  By tradition, Jesus should have provided for her and protected Mary, who was a widow by then.  Jesus certainly had the power to protect Mary, but He couldn’t be right there for her (not in the traditional, directly physical way).  At least, not alone.

While He was on the cross, Jesus therefore saw His mother, and the disciple whom He loved standing by, He said to His mother, “Woman, behold your son!” Then He said to the disciple, “Behold your mother!” And from that hour that disciple took her to his own home (John 19: 25, 26).

Jesus knew he’d be physically far away from His mom the next time her donkey stalled on the road between Jerusalem and Nazareth so He called his friend John to meet her where she was and make sure she made it somewhere safe.

If you have or will have children, you’ll face the moment when you cannot be right there to fix what just went wrong in their world.  You’ll face the morning when even if you left immediately and none of the 16 million sheriffs and state troopers on Highway 80 forced you to slow down, you’d still arrive too late to protect them from whomever that was in the RV that pulled over behind her.   You need friends and family who will be there for yours like they are for their own.

Jesus is the Incarnate Word who created the universe (John 1), and Mary had other sons and daughters besides Jesus (Mark 6:3).  So when we see that Jesus still developed a wide network of extended friends and family to watch over the woman He loved most in the world, it’s an example for what we should do. 
 
And trust me on this, you need that network.


Yesterday, I realized how blessed I am to have friends and family who will take
my calls and disrupt their own busy lives to make take make sure my child is safe, fed, comforted, and protected in places and times when I can’t.  Today I am grateful to God for the ties of love that bind me and my house to so many others. 

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Miles Chapel CME Church in Fairfield, Alabama;  executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO);  and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).

Subscribe to my personal blog  www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com .

Email atgravestwo2@aol.com
Follow me on twitter @AndersonTGraves  #Awordtothewise 

You can help support this ministry with a donation to Miles Chapel CME Church.

You can help support Rev. Graves’ work by visiting his personal blog and clicking the DONATE button on the right-hand sidebar.

Support by check or money order may be mailed to 
Miles Chapel CME Church
P O Box 132

Fairfield, Al 35064

Wednesday, November 2, 2016

UGLY PEOPLE


Then the Lord saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every intent of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually. And the Lord was sorry that He had made man on the earth, and He was grieved in His heart. So the Lord said, “I will destroy man whom I have created from the face of the earth, both man and beast, creeping thing and birds of the air, for I am sorry that I have made them.” But Noah found grace in the eyes of the Lord. (Genesis 6:5-8)

We don’t exist just to exist.

God created humanity with and for a purpose.  He made us  
1) to reflect the image of God (imago dei)
2) to be productive (fruitfulness) consistent with the Divine nature, and
3) to express both the Image and productivity through community.

In Genesis 6, with probably only a few thousand homo sapiens on the entire planet, all clustered together somewhere on the continental plates of Africa and the Middle East, the human species moved exactly away from our purpose.

They turned against the imago deiThe people in Noah's time tried to alter their physical image by marrying and mating with “the sons of God”  (Genesis 6:4). 

They pursued fruit-less activities. Our ancient ancestors used their magnificent brains to think up knew and exponentially worse ways to disobey their Creator.

They corrupted community.  Few though they were, they hurt each other.  Noah's world was filled with murder and violence.  Nobody was his brother’s keeper. Every human being in the Pre-Flood era was a danger to himself and to others. 

Humanity had become so exactly the opposite of what God created them to be that letting them fill the planet would have been completely counter-productive.

So the Lord said, “I will destroy man whom I have created from the face of the earth, . . . for I am sorry that I have made them.”

God said, “I’m sorry I even made you.”

Dang!  That’s harsh. But it was totally justified.

The amazing thing isn’t that God decided to literally wash the Earth clean of human influence, but that He decided not to wash the Earth completely clean of human influence.

God preserved the human species by saving Noah and his immediate family.

Noah was “perfect in his generations” (Genesis 6:9).  That doesn’t mean that he was absolutely perfect.  Later on the dude gets sloppy, naked drunk. (Genesis 9:21 ).  “Perfect [sic] in his generation” means that Noah was the best his culture could produce.

(By the way, the next time you turn up your nose at someone else’s dysfunctional family, remember that we’re ALL descended from a guy who got sloppy, naked, passing-out drunk and then cursed out his grandson because the child’s dad laughed about it. That’s Genesis 9:20-24.)

Noah found grace in the eyes of the Lord.

This Noah dude was the best pre-Flood humanity had to offer, but this is what GRACE does.  Grace is God working with the best we have when even our best is pretty terrible.

Anybody with an active newsfeed can see how generally ugly and imaginatively cruel we modern, advanced humans are.  Every cultural and political demographic accuses the others of being worse, but all of us are pretty frickin’ terrible.  I mean, do you re-read the stuff you post about THEM?

We prefer lies tailored to our digital profiles to the truth.  (Matthew 24:11-11)

We complain about injustice, and we applaud injustice when it works to our advantage.  (Matthew 24:12a)
 


Christians who preach about love spew liberal and conservative hatred. (Matthew 24:12b)


We exploit each other and feel entitled to do so.

We dismantle and desecrate every kind of human community.  

We are moving exponentially faster and farther away from our purpose.

The Great Flood of Genesis 6 was the result of God being just dog tired of people being ugly to one another.  Look how ugly we've become.

Oh, yes. God is full of grace.  He always has been.  He was in Noah's day, too.

But even God gets tired of ugly.


 ---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Miles Chapel CME Church in Fairfield, Alabama;  executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO);  and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).

Subscribe to my personal blog  www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com .

Email atgravestwo2@aol.com
Follow me on twitter @AndersonTGraves  #Awordtothewise 

You can help support this ministry with a donation to Miles Chapel CME Church.

You can help support Rev. Graves’ work by visiting his personal blog and clicking the DONATE button on the right-hand sidebar.

Support by check or money order may be mailed to 
Miles Chapel CME Church
P O Box 132

Fairfield, Al 35064

Monday, October 31, 2016

PUSH

Imagine you know you have less than 24 hours to live.  You gather your best friends around you and tell them, but they don’t believe you. They say you’re too calm, too peaceful, to healthy to die. How can you explain? How can you make them understand and at the same time, give them the words to guide them through grief and loss and into peace and strength?

In the text for Sunday’s sermon, Jesus was in exactly that situation. The Lord answered His friends with a metaphor about . . . childbirth.  Yes, childbirth.

Turn to the closing half of John 16.  The title of sermon is PUSH.


Listen well.

If you can’t get the audio on your device, visit the main podcast page at http://revandersongraves.podomatic.com/

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Miles Chapel CME Church in Fairfield, Alabama;  executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO);  and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).

Subscribe to my personal blog  www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com .

Email atgravestwo2@aol.com
Follow me on twitter @AndersonTGraves  #Awordtothewise 

You can help support this ministry with a donation to Miles Chapel CME Church.

You can help support Rev. Graves’ work by visiting his personal blog and clicking the DONATE button on the right-hand sidebar.

Support by check or money order may be mailed to 
Miles Chapel CME Church
P O Box 132
Fairfield, Al 35064

mourning, joy, peace

Friday, October 28, 2016

FAMILY HISTORY

Blogging Genesis chapters 5-6

When I was a kid in Sunday school, I learned that Adam and Eve had 3 children: Cain, Abel, and Seth.  I learned that because Cain murdered Abel all of Cain’s descendants were evil, but all of Seth’s children were good.  I learned that God chose Noah and his family to survive the Great Flood and restart humanity because Noah was a righteous man and the Lord wanted to preserve the good side of Adam’s family.   

Noah and Cain's grandson from the movie "Noah"
I learned a clean, easy to follow, simple story of Biblical family history.

I learned wrong.

Ten years later I learned that I had relatives I didn’t know were related to me because their connection to the family was a secret.  I learned that all of the families I’d grown up with had similar secrets.  It kinda broke me for a minute.

People prefer the clean, overly-simplified, incorrect version of our family histories.  We need the truth.

Young me, present me, and current you all need the truth about the first family so we can process the truth about our families.  So let me tell you three things my Sunday school teachers didn’t tell me.

#1.  Adam and Eve had more than 3 children.

After he begot Seth, the days of Adam were eight hundred years; and he had sons and daughters. So all the days that Adam lived were nine hundred and thirty years; and he died. (Genesis 5:4)

Adam lived 800 years more AFTER Seth was born.  He and Eve had plenty of time for ---- you know what they had time for.

P.S. Nobody’s family tree is as straight and narrow as our public histories imply.  Every family  (Yes. Yours, too.) has secret marriages, forgotten divorces, unclaimed children, and other secret side branches that didn’t make into the back of grandma’s Bible.

#2.  Cain’s side of the family wasn’t the only side with issues.

Then the Lord saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every intent of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually. (Genesis 6:5)

Genesis chapter 5 traces Adam’s biological line through Seth.  Chapter 6 doesn’t mention a shift from that side of the family.  Chapter 6 also doesn’t mention Cain or his descendants.  So, if Cain’s descendants at that time were part of humanity’s widespread wickedness, they were only part of it.  Noah’s brothers and sisters were descendants of Seth the good, but God didn’t invite them onto the ark.  So, Seth’s other descendants were equally involved in the sinful culture of the pre-Flood world.

P.S. Tell the truth.  Everyone at your Thanksgiving dinner table doesn’t have a clean record either.  I mean they might not have been convicted, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t guilty.


#3.  Cultural or ethnic dominance does not equal moral or spiritual superiority.

There were giants on the earth in those days, and also afterward, when the sons of God came in to the daughters of men and they bore children to them. Those were the mighty men who were of old, men of renown. (Genesis 6:4)

The giants were the most famous, most powerful, and (probably) most admired people in Noah’s time.  In God’s eyes, they were also the embodiment of everything that was wrong with human culture.

Then the Lord saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every intent of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually. And the Lord was sorry that He had made man on the earth, and He was grieved in His heart. (Genesis 6:5-6)

P.S.  The household with the biggest house may not be the happiest family.  The ones in the trailer with the raggedy shed out back may be the most emotionally and spiritually healthy unit at the family reunion. 
Image result for simpsonsDon’t judge any person by their prosperity, appearance, or genealogical pedigree.  Not even yourself.    Our parents, upbringings, our history as a people---- they shape us and affect us, but they must not fully define us.

Who are we as a nation when our founding fathers turn out to be hypocrites, heretics, and opportunists?

Who are we as racial and cultural groups when our honored ancestors turn out to be not as universally honorable as we had thought? 

Who are we as children when the ancestors we revered turn out to be at least as much sinner as they were saints?

Who are we when ancestral villains turn out to be as heroic as the heroes, and our genealogical heroes turn out to be as sinful as the villains?

Who are we? Who are you?  The book of Genesis tells you.

The beginning of Scripture show us that no matter what family history produced you, God created you.  God created YOU, specifically YOU, in His image.  Claim that ancestry.  Define yourself by that genesis. 

Your genealogy describes you, but only God can define you.

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Miles Chapel CME Church in Fairfield, Alabama;  executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO);  and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).

Subscribe to my personal blog  www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com .

Email atgravestwo2@aol.com
Follow me on twitter @AndersonTGraves  #Awordtothewise 

You can help support this ministry with a donation to Miles Chapel CME Church.

You can help support Rev. Graves’ work by visiting his personal blog and clicking the DONATE button on the right-hand sidebar.

Support by check or money order may be mailed to 
Miles Chapel CME Church
P O Box 132
Fairfield, Al 35064