Blogging Genesis
Then
Cain went out from the presence of the Lord and dwelt in the land of Nod on the
east of Eden.
And
Cain knew his wife, and she conceived and bore Enoch. And he built a city, and
called the name of the city after the name of his son—Enoch.
To
Enoch was born Irad; and Irad begot Mehujael, and Mehujael begot Methushael,
and Methushael begot Lamech. (Genesis 4:16-18)
I
guess I was about 6th grade.
Mr.
Griffith, our Sunday School superintendent, was teaching us about Cain and Abel
and being our brothers’ keeper. I think
it was a good lesson; I don’t remember the details of the lecture, but I do
remember that at the end of his presentation, Mr. Griffith asked, “Does anyone
have a question?”
Most
of you didn’t know me in the 6th grade, but “Does anyone have a
question?” was a dangerous opening to give to 6th grade me. Still is, I suppose.
I
raised my hand. Mr. Griffith sighed and
acknowledged me.
“Yes,
Little Graves?”
You
couldn’t fault him for the reluctance in his voice. The man had already endured my father as a
student, and he’d been certain he’d paid full penance for whatever sin had
afflicted him with that particular combination of pointed intellect, sarcasm, arrogance,
and gleefully nonchalant disregard for theological taboos. But then came me, “Little” Graves.
“Yes,
Little Graves?” he sighed.
“Who
did Cain marry?”
“What?”
Mr. Griffith choked.
“There
was just Adam, and Eve, and Cain, and Abel; and Cain killed Abel. So that’s 3 people. God made Cain leave Adam and Eve. If there was nobody else in the whole world,
where did Cain’s wife come from?”
It
was, Mr. Griffith explained, an inappropriate inquiry. One shouldn’t question
God like that. And, if I was so smart,
perhaps I could find out and tell them.
And anyway, time was up.
Most
of you didn’t know me in the 6th grade, but that was when I started
doubting Christianity.
I
had questions, lots of questions which I was genetically incapable of not
asking. I asked them of church elders
who held themselves to be authorities on the things of God. I expected them to know the answers because
grown-ups in authority are supposed to know.
They told me to stop asking “questions like that,” but those were the
question I had. Da’ crap kind of
questions was I supposed to ask? They
told me to believe, and stop questioning God.
I did believe, and I wasn’t questioning God. I was questioning them.
After
a while, my adolescent mind decided that either
(a) These church folk didn’t know what the **** they’re talking about;
(b) They knew, but they were hiding the answers from me; or (c) They were lying
--- about everything: the Bible, God, heaven, hell. They were just making this stuff up.
When
I moved away for college, I became an evangelical agnostic. An evangelical agnostic is--- you know that
guy on campus who stands at the back of Bible study and hollers out questions
about contradictions in the Bible? I was
that guy.
A
few years into school, I started hanging out with a couple of genuine
Christians who respected my questions.
They read Bible and other books. We explored the logic of what I’d
considered contradictions and cross-referenced to passages that opened up the
unity and logical reliability of Scripture.
I saw that God LIKED my questions, and even when I didn’t immediately
see answers, it was O.K. to ask the questions.
The
Lord used other means to work on my heart, but the greatest spiritual victory
in my life was the moment I was able to give my mind to Jesus.
So,
who where did Cain’s wife come from?
Bro,
I don’t know.
The
Bible doesn’t answer that question the way I want; but it does offer clues to
close the gaps in logic. In the first
century, there were already millions of humans made in God’s image, but God
formed a body for a specific man named Jesus.
Jesus, like the first Adam, was the representative of all mankind.
So,
one possibility is that God created more than one man and one woman on the 6th
day (Genesis 1:26+), and then after the first Sabbath (Genesis 2:1-7), God
formed two specific humans named Adam and Eve.
Cain’s met his wife among the other people God had already placed
outside of Eden.
Maybe Cain married a sister who wasn't named in the Bible. That leaves the question of who was out in the wild for him to worry about being attacked (Genesis 4:14).
Then
again, maybe not .
Maybe
you’re smart enough to figure it out. If
you do, tell me. Seriously, tell
me. Post a comment or send an email.
I
still don’t know where Cain’s wife came from.
She came from somewhere though, so there’s a question. Keep asking.
Asking
may upset a lot of people, but believe me: God likes your questions.
---Anderson T. Graves II is a writer,
community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural
leadership development.
Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Miles Chapel CME Church in
Fairfield, Alabama; executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth
Networking Organization (SAYNO); and
director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human
Development (NIHD).
Email atgravestwo2@aol.com
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