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Thursday, March 5, 2015

WHAT? NO APPLAUSE?

 

We like applause.  More and more, as a culture we seem to NEED it, and when we don’t get the public appreciation we think we deserve, things can get real ugly real quick. 

I’ve seen people go clean off on Facebook, ranting for paragraphs about “haters” who won’t like their brilliant status updates.  I’ve watched otherwise dignified award recipients implode onstage because the audience didn’t give a standing ovation.  And preachers----- a preacher who needs “Amens” and doesn’t get them can go from a spiritual leader to a bitter tantrum-throwing baby without changing his suit.
None of those people would’ve been able to stand Jesus.


You see, Jesus wasn’t a big giver of applause.

In addition to the 12 apostles, Jesus had a hand-picked group of 70 other disciples whom He ordained and sent out to preach, minister, and perform miracles in His name.   One day, they all checked in and gave their report.

Then the seventy returned with joy, saying, “Lord, even the demons are subject to us in Your name.” (Luke 10: 17)

Now here’s where you expect Jesus to say, “Well done, good and faithful servants.  I applaud your success.”  But nope.  Jesus replied with a story about the time He threw Satan out of Heaven.    And then He said, “Behold, I give you the authority to trample on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing shall by any means hurt you. (Luke 10: 18-19)

Instead of scheduling an awards ceremony and issuing commendations, Jesus reminded them of their purpose in ministry and told them, basically, “Get over yourselves.  Just be glad that you’re saved.”

Nevertheless do not rejoice in this, that the spirits are subject to you, but rather rejoice because your names are written in heaven.” (Luke 10: 20)

Now, Jesus wasn’t against positive reinforcement.   In Luke 7:28, He called John the Baptist was the greatest of all the prophets.  In John 3, Jesus rejoiced at Nicodemus’ conversion.  A Roman centurion (Matthew 8:10) and a Gentile woman (Matthew 14:28) were among the people who received glowing public accolades from Jesus Himself.

But Jesus didn’t clap all the time, particularly not when what you did was the job God had called you to do.

Jesus rebuked the disciples because likewise you, when you have done all those things which you are commanded, say, ‘We are unprofitable servants. We have done what was our duty to do.’ (Luke 17: 10)

In other words, do your job and stop expecting applause for doing it.

It’s true that we all need encouragement.  But maybe that truth is less a description of innate human nature and more  description of cultured human weakness.

If the value of your service is determined by the recognition you get for doing it there will be irresistible pressure to modify your work to generate more recognition rather than to fulfill your mission.    You might stop telling the truth because untruths get more likes and retweets.  You might say what gets the congregation hyped even if it’s not exactly what the Holy Spirit wanted you to say. 

So, it’s good for all of us (including me) who serve God in public to check in with our Master and hear Him not clap but say:

Nevertheless do not rejoice in this, but rather rejoice because your names are written in heaven!

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Miles Chapel CME Church in Fairfield, Alabama;  executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO);  and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).

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Monday, March 31, 2014

WHAT KIND OF MISSIONARY ARE YOU?

In the CME Church and other traditional African-American denominations, we have an organization called the Women’s Missionary Society and we have an expression:  “Everyone is a missionary.”  But in our churches, being a “missionary” doesn’t always mean what you might think it means.  So what does being a missionary mean TO GOD?

Originally delivered at Bass Tabernacle CME Church for the Tuscaloosa District of the Women’s Missionary Societies, this message poses the question: WHAT KIND OF MISSIONARY ARE YOU?

It’s not a question for certain groups in the church, but it is a question that EVERY Christian must personally ask an answer.


So, listen well.

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer, and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church and the executive director of SAYNO (Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization) in Montgomery, Alabama.

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Monday, October 14, 2013

A WORD TO THE WISE. Proverbs 31: 29 "We're Number 1!"

Proverbs 31: 29     “Many daughters have done well, But you excel them all.”

Proverbs 31: 29.  Marriage should be like a losing football team in Alabama. 

(Stay with me on this.)

In Alabama, football is almost like a religion.  People cheer by faith, not by sight.

Walk into any business or gathering  in the state and you will find people passionately arguing that their team is in fact the best team in the country, even if all empirical, observational, and statistical data indicates that their team sucks.     Any given Friday, Saturday, Sunday, or Monday, men and women can be heard shouting, “We’re number 1!” even when their team is ranked at the bottom.

In Alabama football, your belief in your team’s greatness, in your team’s superiority to all other teams really has very little to do with anything other than this one factor:  They are YOUR team.
 
And that, according to Proverbs 31: 29 is how marriage should be.

Proverbs chapter 31, verses 10-31 is a series of statements about the Virtuous Woman.  Each of those verses relates a wise and objective principle about women in general.  All except verse 29.

Verse 29 changes from the 3rd person “she” to the 1st person “you.”  This change in pronouns means that King Lemuel isn’t just generally talking ABOUT women, he is talking TO HIS woman.

And Lemuel tells his woman, “Baby, you’re number 1!”

 Lemuel concedes that his queen isn’t the only woman whose children rise and call her blessed.     She isn’t the only wife whose husband safely trusts her.  She probably isn’t the best at negotiating real estate deals, and cooking breakfast, and spinning cloth.  Statistically speaking there are certain to be more chartable women somewhere.  On an empirical scale, Lemuel’s wife might not even be in the top 10 of Proverbs 31 women.
But Lemuel doesn’t care about all that “evidence” anymore than a die-hard Auburn University fan cares what the NCAA or the SEC say about their team.  Auburn fans still shout “War Eagle!”  Auburn fans still declare and decree that “We’re number 1!”

Why?  Because it’s their team.

King Lemuel is his queen’s #1, ride-or-die fan

A husband and wife have to be each other’s #1.  He’s your #1, and you’re his #1 fan.  She’s your #1, and you’re her #1 fan.

No matter how good your mama’s fried chicken is, your wife’s chicken is #1. 

When the 6-pack of abs turns into a case of rolls, it’s still “Baby, you’re the best!”    

When them other chicks drop hints about how much more they’d appreciate a man like you, you don’t switch teams.  You hold up your ring finger and tell ‘em, “This is my team.  Ride or die. We’re number 1!”

Many other daughters have done well.  Yea.  Yea. Yea.  Whatever.   Baby, you’re #1!

WE’RE #1!

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church in Montgomery, Alabama, executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO) and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).


To hear sermons, read devotions, and learn more about the ministry at Hall Memorial CME Church, visit www.hallmemorialcme.blogspot.com .

You can read more on Pastor Graves's personal blog at www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com  .

If this message helps or touches you, please help support this ministry. Send a donation of any amount by check or money order.
Mail all contributions to :
Hall Memorial CME Church
541 Seibles Road
Montgomery, AL 36116

Proverbs 31: 29 "WE'RE NUMBER 1!"

Proverbs 31: 29     “Many daughters have done well, But you excel them all.”

Proverbs 31: 29.  Marriage should be like a losing football team in Alabama. 

(Stay with me on this.)

In Alabama, football is almost like a religion.  People cheer by faith, not by sight.

Walk into any business or gathering  in the state and you will find people passionately arguing that their team is in fact the best team in the country, even if all empirical, observational, and statistical data indicates that their team sucks.     Any given Friday, Saturday, Sunday, or Monday, men and women can be heard shouting, “We’re number 1!” even when their team is ranked at the bottom.

In Alabama football, your belief in your team’s greatness, in your team’s superiority to all other teams really has very little to do with anything other than this one factor:  They are YOUR team.
 
And that, according to Proverbs 31: 29 is how marriage should be.

Proverbs chapter 31, verses 10-31 is a series of statements about the Virtuous Woman.  Each of those verses relates a wise and objective principle about women in general.  All except verse 29.

Verse 29 changes from the 3rd person “she” to the 1st person “you.”  This change in pronouns means that King Lemuel isn’t just generally talking ABOUT women, he is talking TO HIS woman.

And Lemuel tells his woman, “Baby, you’re number 1!”

 Lemuel concedes that his queen isn’t the only woman whose children rise and call her blessed.     She isn’t the only wife whose husband safely trusts her.  She probably isn’t the best at negotiating real estate deals, and cooking breakfast, and spinning cloth.  Statistically speaking there are certain to be more chartable women somewhere.  On an empirical scale, Lemuel’s wife might not even be in the top 10 of Proverbs 31 women.
But Lemuel doesn’t care about all that “evidence” anymore than a die-hard Auburn University fan cares what the NCAA or the SEC say about their team.  Auburn fans still shout “War Eagle!”  Auburn fans still declare and decree that “We’re number 1!”

Why?  Because it’s their team.

King Lemuel is his queen’s #1, ride-or-die fan.

A husband and wife have to be each other’s #1.  He’s your #1, and you’re his #1 fan.  She’s your #1, and you’re her #1 fan.

No matter how good your mama’s fried chicken is, your wife’s chicken is #1. 

When the 6-pack of abs turns into a case of rolls, it’s still “Baby, you’re the best!”    

When them other chicks drop hints about how much more they’d appreciate a man like you, you don’t switch teams.  You hold up your ring finger and tell ‘em, “This is my team.  Ride or die. We’re number 1!”

Many other daughters have done well.  Yea.  Yea. Yea.  Whatever.   Baby, you’re #1!

WE’RE #1!

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church in Montgomery, Alabama, executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO) and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).


To hear sermons, read devotions, and learn more about the ministry at Hall Memorial CME Church, visit www.hallmemorialcme.blogspot.com .

You can read more on Pastor Graves's personal blog at www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com  .

If this message helps or touches you, please help support this ministry. Send a donation of any amount by check or money order.
Mail all contributions to :
Hall Memorial CME Church
541 Seibles Road
Montgomery, AL 36116