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Sunday, May 12, 2019

A MOTHER GOD CAN TRUST (audio)

The message for Mother’s Day is titled: A MOTHER GOD CAN TRUST.


Listen well.

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 --Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Bailey Tabernacle CME Church in Tuscaloosa, Alabama. He writes the popular blog: A Word to the Wise at www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com

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Wednesday, December 31, 2014

YOU BETTA WATCH YO' BACK!

I used to think that my father was paranoid.   Turns out he was just-....right.

Pops told me that you can’t trust anybody.  “They betrayed Jesus, boy.  You know they gone betray you.”
Pops said, “It’s not a deal until it’s in writing, and signed, and you got two copies.”
My father told me that most of the people who say they want to help you, don’t.  That the folks who come running to you for help will go running when you need help.  People lie.  Nothing’s easy.  And everybody who tells you that they got an easy way is lying.

Basically, my father taught me to always watch my back.

I thought he was just being paranoid.  Well, he’s no more paranoid than our Heavenly Father. 

In Isaiah chapter 30, God warned His children about trusting every spirit and spiritual advisor who claimed to have an enlightened word. 

 “Woe to the rebellious children,” says the Lord, “Who take counsel, but not of Me, and who devise plans, but not of My Spirit, that they may add sin to sin. (Isaiah 30:1)

The Lord told them that their so-called friends were going to turn on them, but they wouldn’t listen.

[They] walk to go down to Egypt, and have not asked My advice,to strengthen themselves in the strength of Pharaoh, And to trust in the shadow of Egypt!  Therefore the strength of Pharaoh shall be your shame, and trust in the shadow of Egypt shall be your humiliation. (Isaiah 30: 2, 3)

Israel brushed off God’s advice as the paranoid ramblings of prophets who didn’t understand what it was like.

They were "a rebellious people, lying children, children who will not hear the law of the Lord." (verse 9)

But God didn’t recant His advice. He didn’t let the true prophets back off from the true Word.  God, our Father who art in Heaven, continued to tell His people:
   Your ears shall hear a word behind you, saying,
    “This is the way, walk in it,”
    Whenever you turn to the right hand
    Or whenever you turn to the left.  (Isaiah 30:21)

A Word behind you will continue to speak.  The Word, the Lord will speak. Listen to the Word that has already been given. Pay attention to the Word behind you.  If you want to see the Truth, then all you have to is turn around and WATCH YOUR BACK.

God warned His people, and He told them point blank they would suffer for ignoring His warning.  And they did. But God also promised that no matter what they went through, no matter what pain they brought on themselves by ignoring their Father’s good advice, in the end Father God would always be there for them.

The Lord will wait, that He may be gracious to you; and therefore He will be exalted, that He may have mercy on you (verse 18)

This world and the systems of this world do not love God’s children.  No matter how much they
promise to bring us peace and justice and prosperity and happiness, they will always, inevitably turn on us. 

That’s what God said. "If you were of the world, the world would love its own. Yet because you are not of the world, but   I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you.
Remember the word that I said to you, ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they           persecuted Me, they will also persecute you. If they kept My word, they will keep yours also." (John 15: 19, 20)

Turns out He is..... right.

“They betrayed Jesus, boy.  You know they gone betray you.”

Love people.  Don’t love the systems of this world.

Learn, master, and make use of the systems of this world.  But never, never trust those systems to do right because it’s the right thing to do.

Be a good worker, a good citizen, and a good neighbor; but never compromise God’s Word to conform to the current cultural definition of “good.”

Spend quality time every day in prayer.  Spend quality time every day with your Bible.  Tune your ears to the Holy Spirit and the Scripture He inspired.

Then, when the sound of the world becomes loudest, your ears shall hear a word behind you, saying, “This is the way, walk in it,” whenever you turn to the right hand or whenever you turn to the left.  

Until you die or Jesus returns, remember what Daddy said.

Love everybody. 

But watch yo’ back.

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Miles Chapel CME Church in Fairfield, Alabama;  executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO);  and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).

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Monday, December 16, 2013

WHAT GOD NEEDED FOR HIS SON

God is omniscient.  He knows everything.
 
He’s aware of every event, every thought, every subatomic particle in every dimension and universe.     God even knows the all of the certainties and possibilities of every permutation of future events, actions, and thoughts.

After all, God created matter, energy, life, space, and time.  He composed the rules by which all things seen and unseen operate. 
God knows. 

But.

The Old Testament declares that  God is not a man, …, nor a son of man  (Numbers 23: 19)

Until the Incarnation, the Son of God, had never personally experienced life as a human male.  True the Old Testament refers to God taking on human form from time to time to communicate with His special servants, but those were singular events not day-in-day-out life.

When Jesus was born as a babe in Bethlehem,  the omniscient 2nd person of the Trinity was encapsulated by the flesh of a human infant.    Jesus knew all of the biological processes at work in human labor and birth.  As the Word made flesh, Jesus knew what was occurring at the subcellular level when Mary pushed.  He understood the responses of His own neurons to the muscular contractions moving His fetal form through the birth canal. Better than any mother or any doctor who would ever live, Jesus knew what childbirth was.

But Jesus didn’t know what it was like to be born until He came as a baby.

Pause.  Take a breath.  No, I haven’t become a heretic.  I am not disputing the doctrine that God knows EVERYTHING.

I believe that God’s omniscience is superior to our experience. (Just look at how we continuously screw up situations even when we have experience dealing with them.)   Omniscience is superior to experience, but omniscience isn’t the same as experience.  God knows everything, but He did not know what it was like to personally go through the things He knows.   God has all knowledge, but He had not had every personal experience.
Just think about it.  God knows all about the human body and the process of hunger.  The Lord created the human body. He created food, and He created the human body to need food(Genesis 1: 29).  God knows all about it, but God had never actually been hungry.  Not until He came to us as Jesus and was ahungered.

Omniscient God knows everything about adolescence and relationships, but God had never been a 14 year old boy dealing with girls in the village who think (or don’t think) he’s cute; not until Jesus came and lived as a 14 year old boy.

That’s why with Jesus we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin.  (Hebrews 4:15)
Now, if you’re past the point of wanting to burn me at the stake, let me explain why I’m thinking about this at CHRISTmas time.

Joseph.

Joseph, husband to Mary and stepfather to Jesus.

God chose Joseph to be Mary’s husband.  The Lord even sent an angel to overcome Joseph’s (reasonable) decision to call of the wedding after discovering Mary pregnant an not pregnant by him (Matthew 1: 20).    God selected Joseph over all of the other descendants of King David living at the time, and there were at least enough sons of David to fill up every motel in Bethlehem.(Luke 2: 3, 4, 7)

Why Joseph?  
Mary conceived as a virgin, so God didn’t need Joseph’s genetic material. 

So why Joseph?
Because though Jesus knew everything about men and manhood, He had never actually been a human male before.  He needed a model with experience.

Joseph was Jesus’ model for manhood.

Joseph was the kind of man that God wanted His Son to be like.

Ruminate on that for a minute.

Now, brothers, ask yourself:  Am I?

Could God trust you with His Son?

O.K., bring that down a notch.   Can God trust you with YOUR SON?

When your son is born he has never been a human male before.   Genetics and instinct will only take him so far.  He needs a physically present model of manhood to imitate.  He needs a model with experience.

If your son grew up modeling your moral, spiritual, and personal behavior would God look down on him when he is grown and say, “In him I am well pleased”?

There are (I guarantee you that there are) boys around you who do not share your genetic material but they do look to you as an example of manhood.
Can God trust you to be a good example to them?  

Not just from time to time when you feel like schooling the young boys, but day-in-day-out when you don’t even know they’re watching?  

Can God trust you with His sons?

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.
Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church in Montgomery, Alabama, executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO) and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).
To hear sermons, read devotions, and learn more about the ministry at Hall Memorial CME Church, visit www.hallmemorialcme.blogspot.com .
You can read more on Pastor Graves's personal blog at www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com  .

If this message helps or touches you, please help support this ministry. Send a donation of any amount by check or money order.
Mail all contributions to :
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Thursday, July 25, 2013

A WORD TO THE WISE. Proverbs 31: 11. "A Formula for a Profitable Marriage"

Proverbs 31: 11     The heart of her husband safely trusts her; so he will have no lack of gain.

Proverbs 31: 11.  The NIV says that he has full confidence in her.  Regardless of translation, the verse describes a marriage in which the husband totally believes in his wife, and his wife is a woman he can totally believe in.

Thus, this verse gives a two element formula for marital prosperity:    Trust + Safety = Prosperity

Trust is a choice, an unearned gift.  A husband doesn’t trust his wife because she has earned his trust. He trusts his wife because he chooses to have faith in her.   That’s why one man repeatedly gives his means and heart to a woman whom he knows is betraying him, while another man doubts and decries a woman who has always been absolutely faithful.

Therefore, my brothers, the first ingredient in your marriage’s profit margin is entirely up to you.

The second part, sisters, is up to you.

It’s up to you to make it safe for him to trust you.  It’s up to you to deserve his trust.

If a man doesn’t trust his wife, he’ll never be as successful as he could be, because he can’t enjoy the fullness of God’s favor.
Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.  (1 Peter 3:7)

It isn’t safe for spouses to trust one another if one of them is being deceptive.   Such a breach of trust is also a breach of God’s favor. 
You cover the altar of the Lord with tears, with weeping and crying; [but God] does not regard the offering anymore, nor receive it with goodwill from your hands.
Yet you say, “For what reason?”
Because the Lord has been witness between you and the wife of your youth, with whom you have dealt treacherously; yet she is your companion and your wife by covenant.  (Malachi 2: 13, 14)     

When a husband trusts his wife AND the wife is worthy of his trust, then the two work together as one.  And oneness in marriage is the path to dominion, to success, to prosperity.

Husbands and wives, my brother and sisters, ya’ll are in this together.  There is no more “I” in your team.  If you want it, then YA’LL go get it ------ together.  Have each other’s backs.  Hold each other’s hands.   Trust one another.  Make it safe to trust one another.

It’s not just good for your relationship.  It’s also good business.
---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church in Montgomery, Alabama, executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO) and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).


To hear sermons, read devotions, and learn more about the ministry at Hall Memorial CME Church, visit www.hallmemorialcme.blogspot.com .

You can read more on Pastor Graves's personal blog at www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com  .

If this message helps or touches you, please help support this ministry. Send a donation of any amount by check or money order.
Mail all contributions to :
Hall Memorial CME Church
541 Seibles Road
Montgomery, AL 36116

Proverbs 31: 11. "A Formula for a Profitable Marriage"

Proverbs 31: 11     The heart of her husband safely trusts her; so he will have no lack of gain.

Proverbs 31: 11.  The NIV says that he has full confidence in her.  Regardless of translation, the verse describes a marriage in which the husband totally believes in his wife, and his wife is a woman he can totally believe in.

Thus, this verse gives a two element formula for marital prosperity:    Trust + Safety = Prosperity

Trust is a choice, an unearned gift.  A husband doesn’t trust his wife because she has earned his trust. He trusts his wife because he chooses to have faith in her.   That’s why one man repeatedly gives his means and heart to a woman whom he knows is betraying him, while another man doubts and decries a woman who has always been absolutely faithful.

Therefore, my brothers, the first ingredient in your marriage’s profit margin is entirely up to you.

The second part, sisters, is up to you.

It’s up to you to make it safe for him to trust you.  It’s up to you to deserve his trust.

If a man doesn’t trust his wife, he’ll never be as successful as he could be, because he can’t enjoy the fullness of God’s favor.
Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.  (1 Peter 3:7)

It isn’t safe for spouses to trust one another if one of them is being deceptive.   Such a breach of trust is also a breach of God’s favor. 
You cover the altar of the Lord with tears, with weeping and crying; [but God] does not regard the offering anymore, nor receive it with goodwill from your hands.
Yet you say, “For what reason?”
Because the Lord has been witness between you and the wife of your youth, with whom you have dealt treacherously; yet she is your companion and your wife by covenant.  (Malachi 2: 13, 14)     

When a husband trusts his wife AND the wife is worthy of his trust, then the two work together as one.  And oneness in marriage is the path to dominion, to success, to prosperity.

Husbands and wives, my brother and sisters, ya’ll are in this together.  There is no more “I” in your team.  If you want it, then YA’LL go get it ------ together.  Have each other’s backs.  Hold each other’s hands.   Trust one another.  Make it safe to trust one another.

It’s not just good for your relationship.  It’s also good business.
---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church in Montgomery, Alabama, executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO) and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).


To hear sermons, read devotions, and learn more about the ministry at Hall Memorial CME Church, visit www.hallmemorialcme.blogspot.com .

You can read more on Pastor Graves's personal blog at www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com  .

If this message helps or touches you, please help support this ministry. Send a donation of any amount by check or money order.
Mail all contributions to :
Hall Memorial CME Church
541 Seibles Road
Montgomery, AL 36116

Wednesday, March 13, 2013

A WORD TO THE WISE. Proverbs 30: 5

Proverbs 30:5     Every word of God is pure; He is a shield to those who put their trust in Him.

Proverbs 30: 5.  The word translated “pure” refers to the work of a goldsmith who has heated and refined and cast his precious metal.     This verse is basically saying:

The Word of God has come through the fire.

The Word of God s tried and true.

The Word of God is good as gold.

The Bible has come through the fire of authors and conquerors, languages and  translations, religious realignments and cultural upheavals; and it has come through pure as gold. 

Scholars argue over the original intent of the Bible’s human authors.   God Himself has watched over and preserved His Word so that we have what God originally intended.   Academics debate interpretations for cultural relevance.  The Holy Spirit is present in every believer to deliver accurate interpretations of Divine revelation.  Despite all the grubby fingers that have handled the Bible, the Word of God remains pure, precious, and good as gold.

But the golden Word is not an accessory; it is a necessity.  The Bible is not some extra collection of ornamental ideas to shelve in the corners of your lifestyle.  These are more than pretty words. The Word of God exists and speaks with purpose, great and eternal purpose.

So shall My word be that goes forth from My mouth; It shall not return to Me void, But it shall accomplish what I please, And it shall prosper in the thing for which I sent it.  (Isaiah 55: 11)

The Word goes forth now as it has gone forth for millennia: to show us how to live, how to love, how to see, how to think, how to perceive so that we experience the Divine purpose.  The purpose of all this living isn’t just to experience this and that; it is to experience a relationship with HIM.

Jesus said: You search the Scriptures, for in them you think you have eternal life; and these are they which testify of Me.  (John 5:39)

The Bible is the written Word of God.  Jesus is the Word made flesh (John 1: 14).   The whole purpose of the written Word is to turn us to Jesus.

When Agur scratched out the words of Proverbs chapter 30, the majority of our Bible had not been written.  Most of the Biblical authors hadn’t even been born.  But God is eternal; He transcends time.    And so, 9 or 10 centuries before Jesus was physically born in  Bethlehem, the Holy Spirit inspired the son of a scholar to write about God’s SON (Proverbs 30: 4) and to call the “Word of God” by the pronoun HE. 

Not “it.”  HE.

Every word of God is pure; He is a shield to those who put their trust in Him.

Don’t neglect God’s Word.  If you do, you’ll never know Jesus like you could.

Don’t let anyone or any institution diminish the value of God’s Word to you. If you do, you’ll miss the deepest and most powerful principles of life and life abundantly.

Don’t allow any argument or philosophy to make you doubt the integrity of what God Himself has sent forth into the world.  The Word is tried and truth. 

If you trust Jesus, then trust the Bible.

 ---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church in Montgomery, Alabama.

Call  334-288-0577
Email
atgravestwo2@aol.com
Friend me at
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To hear sermons, read devotions, and learn more about the ministry at Hall Memorial CME Church, visit www.hallmemorialcme@blogspotcom.

If you enjoy our work, please help support our work in the community. Send a donation of any amount by check or money order.
Mail all contributions to :
Hall Memorial CME Church
541 Seibles Road
Montgomery, AL 36116

Proverbs 30: 5

Proverbs 30:5     Every word of God is pure; He is a shield to those who put their trust in Him.

Proverbs 30: 5.  The word translated “pure” refers to the work of a goldsmith who has heated and refined and cast his precious metal.     This verse is basically saying:

The Word of God has come through the fire.

The Word of God s tried and true.

The Word of God is good as gold.

The Bible has come through the fire of authors and conquerors, languages and  translations, religious realignments and cultural upheavals; and it has come through pure as gold. 

Scholars argue over the original intent of the Bible’s human authors.   God Himself has watched over and preserved His Word so that we have what God originally intended.   Academics debate interpretations for cultural relevance.  The Holy Spirit is present in every believer to deliver accurate interpretations of Divine revelation.  Despite all the grubby fingers that have handled the Bible, the Word of God remains pure, precious, and good as gold.

But the golden Word is not an accessory; it is a necessity.  The Bible is not some extra collection of ornamental ideas to shelve in the corners of your lifestyle.  These are more than pretty words. The Word of God exists and speaks with purpose, great and eternal purpose.

So shall My word be that goes forth from My mouth; It shall not return to Me void, But it shall accomplish what I please, And it shall prosper in the thing for which I sent it.  (Isaiah 55: 11)

The Word goes forth now as it has gone forth for millennia: to show us how to live, how to love, how to see, how to think, how to perceive so that we experience the Divine purpose.  The purpose of all this living isn’t just to experience this and that; it is to experience a relationship with HIM.

Jesus said: You search the Scriptures, for in them you think you have eternal life; and these are they which testify of Me.  (John 5:39)

The Bible is the written Word of God.  Jesus is the Word made flesh (John 1: 14).   The whole purpose of the written Word is to turn us to Jesus.

When Agur scratched out the words of Proverbs chapter 30, the majority of our Bible had not been written.  Most of the Biblical authors hadn’t even been born.  But God is eternal; He transcends time.    And so, 9 or 10 centuries before Jesus was physically born in  Bethlehem, the Holy Spirit inspired the son of a scholar to write about God’s SON (Proverbs 30: 4) and to call the “Word of God” by the pronoun HE. 

Not “it.”  HE.

Every word of God is pure; He is a shield to those who put their trust in Him.

Don’t neglect God’s Word.  If you do, you’ll never know Jesus like you could.

Don’t let anyone or any institution diminish the value of God’s Word to you. If you do, you’ll miss the deepest and most powerful principles of life and life abundantly.

Don’t allow any argument or philosophy to make you doubt the integrity of what God Himself has sent forth into the world.  The Word is tried and truth. 

If you trust Jesus, then trust the Bible.

 ---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church in Montgomery, Alabama.

Call  334-288-0577
Email
atgravestwo2@aol.com
Friend me at
www.facebook.com/rev.a.t.graves

To hear sermons, read devotions, and learn more about the ministry at Hall Memorial CME Church, visit www.hallmemorialcme@blogspotcom.

If you enjoy our work, please help support our work in the community. Send a donation of any amount by check or money order.
Mail all contributions to :
Hall Memorial CME Church
541 Seibles Road
Montgomery, AL 36116