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Showing posts with label rules. Show all posts

Monday, September 7, 2015

“THE GENERAL IDEA”: Blogging through the General Rules of the CME Church


So John the Baptist would start off a sermon like this: “Brood of vipers! Who warned you to flee from the wrath to come?”  (Luke 3: 7)

Basically, “Hey, losers!  Do any of you wanna not go to Hell?”

(John the Baptist cares nothing for your motivational speaking techniques.)

John referred to the congregation as bunch of snakes.  He questioned their ancestry (verse 8).  He called them a bunch of useless trees waiting to be chopped down (verse 9).

From John the Baptist this wasn’t a series of  insults.  Well, it WAS a series of insults, but it wasn’t ONLY  a series of insults.  John’s introduction was also an invitation.  An angry, sarcastic, magnificently effective invitation.

They flocked to the altar. (Actually they flocked to the muddy edge of the Jordan river bank, but you get the imagery.)  Peasants, tax collectors, Romans, Galilean fishermen---- they asked, “What should we do, Reverend John.  We want to change.  We want to get right before the Messiah comes to judge us with His winnowing fan in His hand.  WHAT SHALL WE DO?!”

John answered them all.  Whatever their ethnicity, status, occupation, or past performance, he gave them pastoral counsel about what lifestyle changes to make to align their daily lives with the will of God. 

The membership policy of the angry, sarcastic fire-and-brimstone Baptist preacher is the official membership policy of the Methodist movement.

One of the defining documents of the Methodist movement is John Wesley’s General Rules.

The introduction to the General Rules says:

The General Rules of the "United Societies" organized by Mr. Wesley in 1739 are as follows:

There is only one condition previously required of those who desire admission into these societies, a "desire to flee from the wrath to come, and to be saved from their sins." 

That’s it.

No religious resume requirement.  No Bible literacy exam.  No financial disclosure statement.  You don’t have to first prove your worth or your commitment.  You just have to not want to go to Hell when Jesus comes to judge the world.

If you "desire to flee from the wrath to come, and to be saved from their sins," we’ll work with you on the rest.  The rest, of course, refers to those lifestyle changes.

The General Rules continue:

But wherever this is really fixed in the soul, it will be shown by its fruits. It is therefore, expected of all who continue therein that they shall continue to evidence their desire of salvation,

First, by doing no harm, by avoiding evil of every kind…
Secondly, by doing good…
Thirdly, by attending on all the ordinances of God…

I’m a Methodist pastor, and I don’t know for sure who in my church is truly saved, wherever this is really fixed in the soul.  But we can all know the evidence of at least their desire of salvation because it will be shown by its fruits.

We all come into the church as broken, unholy people; but in the church we strive together for wholeness and holiness.    In the church, we help each other align our daily lives with the will of God,
First, by doing no harm, by avoiding evil of every kind…
Secondly, by doing good…
Thirdly, by attending on all the ordinances of God…

Methodism is an open door to discipleship.  Membership is easy.  Discipleship is work.  From as far back at least as John the Baptist, that’s been the “general” idea.

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Miles Chapel CME Church in Fairfield, Alabama;  executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO);  and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).

Subscribe to my personal blog  www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com .

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You can help support this ministry with a donation to Miles Chapel CME Church.

You can help support Rev. Graves’ work by visiting his personal blog and clicking the DONATE button on the right-hand sidebar.

Support by check or money order may be mailed to 
Miles Chapel CME Church
P O Box 132
Fairfield, Al 35064



Tuesday, January 13, 2015

LEARN THE RULE BOOK

lest Satan should take advantage of us; for we are not ignorant of his devices. (2 Corinthians 2: 11)

This is not a post about sports, but the New England Patriots beat the Baltimore Ravens in the NFL playoffs

They shouldn’t have. 

In the 2nd half of the game the Ravens were beating the brakes off the Patriots, leading by 14 points, but the Patriots came back to win the game 35-31.   The Patriots’ coach used a series of unconventional plays and never before used formations to break their opponents’ rhythm and score touchdown after touchdown after touchdown.   But that’s not important either.

What made me give a crap about the game was the Twitter exchange between the losing coach (Harbagh) and the winning quarterback (Brady).


The defeated coach accused his opponents of cheating because they used maneuvers he had never seen and would never have thought of using himself.  But the Ravens didn’t cheat.  They pulled trick plays, but even their tricks had to conform to the rule book.

The defeated coach had underestimated the possibilities available to his enemy because HE DIDN’T KNOW THE RULE BOOK.

Our opponent, Satan, is a liar.  He will use every deception and dirty trick he can to corrupt you and break your fellowship with God.  But even the devil is limited by the rules of THE BOOK.

Yes.  I am saying that the devil has to play by the rules.

Remember Job.  Satan had a plan, a series of plays already drawn out to get Job to turn on God, but before he could execute any of those plays he had to go to the Referee, Commissioner, and Owner of the universe and get a ruling.

You and the devil play by the same rules.

The book that prescribes the operations of Divine grace and eternal redemption also describes the possible means that the enemy can use against you. 

The devil can only surprise us if we haven’t learned the rule book.

The Bible is the rule book.  Read it.  Don’t just pick out a couple of sweet prosperity promises and set it down.  Study and see how evil operates, how good people end up doing bad things, how the devil breaks the rhythm of people on God’s team and comes from behind to kill, steal, and destroy.

Stop complaining about how tricky your opponents is and study the rule book, as the Apostle Paul wrote, lest Satan should take advantage of us; for we are not ignorant of his devices. (2 Corinthians 2: 11)

We are not ignorant of his trick plays.

At least, we don’t have to be.

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Miles Chapel CME Church in Fairfield, Alabama;  executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO);  and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).

Subscribe to my personal blog  www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com .

Email atgravestwo2@aol.com

You can help support this ministry with a donation to Miles Chapel CME Church.

You can help support Rev. Graves’ work by visiting his personal blog and clicking the DONATE button on the right-hand sidebar.

Support by check or money order may be mailed to 
Miles Chapel CME Church
P O Box 132
Fairfield, Al 35064



Thursday, August 1, 2013

A WORD TO THE WISE: Proverbs 31:12. "Treat 'Em Like a Christian"

Proverbs 31: 12     She does him good and not evil all the days of her life.

Proverbs 31: 12.  In the early days of the Methodist movement, before the small groups that were meeting had become a denomination, John Wesley created the “General Rules of the United Societies.”  These rules outline foundational principles of Methodism. 

Don’t go away.  This’ll all connect with Proverbs 31.  Stay with me.

Among the theological declarations in the General Rules are 3 life rules that Methodist are expected to “continue therein that they should continue to evidence their desire of salvation.” 

These general rules don’t make you saved, but they do express your salvation.  The first 2 of those rules are:
1)      By doing no harm, by avoiding evil of every kind, especially that which is most generally practiced
2)      By doing good … as they have opportunity, doing good of every possible sort

Do good and don’t do harm.  That’s the evidence that you have a right relationship with Jesus Christ.

Now read Proverbs 31: 12.

Do good and don’t do harm  That’s the evidence that you have a right relationship with your husband/wife.

Get it?

The same rules that apply to your Christian relationship with other people------- those exact same rules apply to your family relationship with the other spouse.

We talk about a man treating his wife like a queen and a woman treating her husband like a king. We talk about a husband being his wife’s protector and her being his greatest cheerleader.  We talk about husbands and wives treating each other like friends, like  partners, like missing halves.

Among all of these analogies, we often forget something.  We forget to treat each other LIKE CHRISTIANS.

I don’t go around cussing people out ----- not because they don’t deserve it----- because that’s not the Christian thing to do (Ephesians 4: 29).   So, I also don’t cuss at my wife, because she deserves at least the same Christian courtesy I show to everybody else.

You know that you have to forgive people who wrong you because Jesus said that you have to (Matthew 11: 25).   So you  can’t stay mad at my husband or wife for something he/she said in 1998.  You forgive them because you’re still a follower of Christ, even in the context of your marriage.  (Colossians 3: 19)

You have to help people (Matthew 25: 31-46).  You have to tell the truth even when a lie would be more convenient (Zechariah 8: 16; Ephesians 4: 25).  You have to live so that your life expresses, and doesn’t contradict ,the Biblical message of God’s grace and holiness(Matthew 5: 16) .   

So also, you have to be honest with your spouse.   You have to be there for them. You have to live with your husband/ live your wife in such a way that your actions in the family make your spouse want to know your Jesus better.

 In the opening verses of 1 Peter chapter 3, the Apostle talks very specifically about husband and wives. Then around verse 8, Peter switches into general instructions for all Christians. 

Be of one mind, having compassion for one another; love as brothers, be tenderhearted, be courteous. 
Do not return evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary bless, knowing that you were called to this, that you may inherit a blessing.
For he who would love life and see good days, Let him refrain his tongue from evil, and his lips from speaking deceit. Let him turn away from evil and do good. Let him seek peace and pursue it.  
For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, and His ears are open to their prayers; but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil. (1 Peter 3: 8-12)

Did you catch that part in the middle?   Let him turn away from evil and do good. (1 Peter 3: 11)

Same thing Wesley said to the emerging Methodist church.  

Same thing King Lemuel and his mother said about the ideal wife in Proverbs 31.

Though God’s instructions for marriage don’t always apply to general behaviors in the church, God’s instructions for conduct in the church do generally apply to conduct in the family.

We forget that sometimes.   And that’s when we hurt the one we love most.  

When you don’t know which magazine’s marital advice to apply, remember this:  Always treat your husband, always treat your wife at least as well as you know God wants you to treat your other brothers and sisters in Christ.

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church in Montgomery, Alabama, executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO) and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).


To hear sermons, read devotions, and learn more about the ministry at Hall Memorial CME Church, visit www.hallmemorialcme.blogspot.com .

You can read more on Pastor Graves's personal blog at www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com  .

If this message helps or touches you, please help support this ministry. Send a donation of any amount by check or money order.
Mail all contributions to :
Hall Memorial CME Church
541 Seibles Road
Montgomery, AL 36116

Proverbs 31:12. "Treat 'Em Like a Christian"

Proverbs 31: 12     She does him good and not evil all the days of her life.

Proverbs 31: 12.  In the early days of the Methodist movement, before the small groups that were meeting had become a denomination, John Wesley created the “General Rules of the United Societies.”  These rules outline foundational principles of Methodism. 

Don’t go away.  This’ll all connect with Proverbs 31.  Stay with me.

Among the theological declarations in the General Rules are 3 life rules that Methodist are expected to “continue therein that they should continue to evidence their desire of salvation.” 

These general rules don’t make you saved, but they do express your salvation.  The first 2 of those rules are:
1)      By doing no harm, by avoiding evil of every kind, especially that which is most generally practiced
2)      By doing good … as they have opportunity, doing good of every possible sort

Do good and don’t do harm.  That’s the evidence that you have a right relationship with Jesus Christ.

Now read Proverbs 31: 12.

Do good and don’t do harm  That’s the evidence that you have a right relationship with your spouse.

Get it?

The same rules that apply to your Christian relationship with other people------- those exact same rules apply to your family relationship with the other spouse.

We talk about a man treating his wife like a queen and a woman treating her husband like a king. We talk about a husband being his wife’s protector and her being his greatest cheerleader.  We talk about husbands and wives treating each other like friends, like  partners, like missing halves.

Among all of these analogies, we often forget something.  We forget to treat each other LIKE CHRISTIANS.

I don’t go around cussing people out ----- not because they don’t deserve it----- because that’s not the Christian thing to do (Ephesians 4: 29).   So, I also don’t cuss at my wife, because she deserves at least the same Christian courtesy I show to everybody else.

You know that you have to forgive people who wrong you because Jesus said that you have to (Matthew 11: 25).   So you  can’t stay mad at my husband or wife for something he/she said in 1998.  You forgive them because you’re still a follower of Christ, even in the context of your marriage.  (Colossians 3: 19)

You have to help people (Matthew 25: 31-46).  You have to tell the truth even when a lie would be more convenient (Zechariah 8: 16; Ephesians 4: 25).  You have to live so that your life expresses, and doesn’t contradict ,the Biblical message of God’s grace and holiness(Matthew 5: 16) .   

So also, you have to be honest with your spouse.   You have to be there for them. You have to live with your husband/ live your wife in such a way that your actions in the family make your spouse want to know your Jesus better.

 In the opening verses of 1 Peter chapter 3, the Apostle talks very specifically about husband and wives. Then around verse 8, Peter switches into general instructions for all Christians. 

Be of one mind, having compassion for one another; love as brothers, be tenderhearted, be courteous. 
Do not return evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary bless, knowing that you were called to this, that you may inherit a blessing.
For he who would love life and see good days, Let him refrain his tongue from evil, and his lips from speaking deceit. Let him turn away from evil and do good. Let him seek peace and pursue it.  
For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, and His ears are open to their prayers; but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil. (1 Peter 3: 8-12)

Did you catch that part in the middle?   Let him turn away from evil and do good. (1 Peter 3: 11)

Same thing Wesley said to the emerging Methodist church.  

Same thing King Lemuel &  his mother said about the ideal wife in Proverbs 31.

Though God’s instructions for marriage don’t always apply to general behaviors in the church, God’s instructions for conduct in the church do generally apply to conduct in the family.

We forget that sometimes.   And that’s when we hurt the one we love most.  

When you don’t know which magazine’s marital advice to apply, remember this:  Always treat your husband, always treat your wife at least as well as you know God wants you to treat your other brothers and sisters in Christ.

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church in Montgomery, Alabama, executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO) and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).


To hear sermons, read devotions, and learn more about the ministry at Hall Memorial CME Church, visit www.hallmemorialcme.blogspot.com .

You can read more on Pastor Graves's personal blog at www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com  .

If this message helps or touches you, please help support this ministry. Send a donation of any amount by check or money order.
Mail all contributions to :
Hall Memorial CME Church
541 Seibles Road
Montgomery, AL 36116