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Monday, January 21, 2019

SALVATION IN THE SHUTDOWN (audio)

The 2nd message in our series from the book of Daniel.  The title is: SALVATION IN THE SHUTDOWN.


Listen well.


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 --Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Bailey Tabernacle CME Church in Tuscaloosa, Alabama. He writes the popular blog: A Word to the Wise at www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com

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Friday, December 12, 2014

GIFTS AND BOOTSTRAPS


“What do you have that is not a gift?”---Bishop Lawrence Reddick, Christian Methodist Episcopal Church

When Sheila and I started out we were broke.  I worked nights at a convenience store.  She closed at Taco Bell.   The weekend we got married my boss fired me while I was in Mississippi getting married.  We had one car between us, and I totaled it the week before we got married. So we were broke, I was unemployed, and we had no car. 

Now we are a pretty firmly middle class American family.

I don’t steal and I don’t panhandle.  What I have was bought with what I earned.  But, what I’ve earned was only possible because of what I have been given.


  • Government Pell Grants and student loans made it possible to finish my degrees.
  • Tax revenue funding the public school system made it possible for me to have a career in education.
  • Discrimination lawsuits forced Alabama to pay me and other teachers 100% of the approved salary matrix.
  • The giant teacher union I joined, run by Paul Hubbert, fought for me to get a raise every 2 to 3 years, sometimes 2 years in a row.
  • That same union protected my pension plan every time corporations and legislators wanted to raid it, defund it, or turn it into something like the 401(k)’s and modified plans that lost all their money a few years ago.
  • Heavily subsidized health insurance kept my family out of debt for the many medical emergencies we’ve had.
  • And on and on and on. 

These are the bootstraps by which my wife and I pulled ourselves into the middle class. 

But the straps were not attached to our own hard-working feet.  We rose from broke, unemployed, and barely employed to the American middle class because we were strapped to and lifted by people and institutions and policies designed to help those lower down not just cater to those higher up.




I donate what I can but I don’t have the money to pay for every other family’s needs.  What I do have in generous portions is a voice that I can use to advocate for actions that meet the needs of many more families struggling like Sheila and I were.

Considering all that I have been given, how dare I not give back such as I have?  How dare I forget what it’s like to be the one who needs help? How dare I pretend that I have gained anything by just pulling on my own bootstraps?

“What do you have that is not a gift?” 

If you’re honest, nothing. 

Remember that.

For everyone to whom much is given, from him much will be required; and to whom much has been committed, of him they will ask the more. --- Jesus, Luke 12: 48


---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Miles Chapel CME Church in Fairfield, Alabama;  executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO);  and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).

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Monday, March 24, 2014

A LAMENT FOR MY GRANDFATHERS' WORLD

Only in the last decade of my life have I begun to fully realize what phenomenal men my grandfathers were.  

They were the sole bread-winners of their families, but both of them lived and died without credit cards, payday loans, or second mortgages. (Grandpa Anderson never even had a 1st mortgage.)  To their combined 16 children, my grandfathers both left land, not debt. 

They bought property, built homes, raised children, and sent many of those kids off to college.  And they, Black men, accomplished all of this in south Mississippi during the years of overt, violent segregation.

Neither of my grandfathers had any specialized skills, professional certificates, degrees, or even a high school diploma.  They weren’t inventors, investors, financial geniuses, or marketing gurus. 
They were honest, strong men who worked hard and didn’t do a lot of stupid stuff with their money.

That’s it.  They worked----- hard and they didn’t do a lot of stupid stuff with their money. 

I had two epiphanies about my grandpas’ financial lives:
1st. What they did in their time was totally--- ORDINARY.  Most of the men (the Black men) of their generation in my hometown whom I knew had similar educational levels and left similar inheritances to their children.

2nd. What they did, they could not do today.

Barring an oil strike in one’s backyard, a winning lottery ticket, or a highly successful lawsuit; what are the chances that a 8th grade dropout with no investment portfolio and no specialized could acquire a 16 lot subdivision and keep it ---debt-free.

Wait.  Don’t just repeat that American dream stuff about hard work and dedication.  Stop and think through the scenario of an uneducated man, a regular guy, starting off right now in this economy.  Run the scenarios in your head and tell me how he ends up.  I’ll wait.

……..Well?

Exactly. 

He’ll end up homeless, addicted, imprisoned, indebted, dependent on charity, and/ or dead at a very young age.

Here’s the reality:  It’s not enough anymore to just be an honest, hard-working man who won’t do stupid stuff with his money.

And that means that most of the approximately 39 million adult American citizens who don’t have a high school diploma ARE SCREWED ---- unless they get some other educational or professional credential.

Yeah, yeah.  They should’ve stayed in school.  Too late.  They didn’t.

Riightt.  They ought to go get their GED’s.    I teach GED classes.  It’s harder than standard high school graduation exams.

And really, the fact that when you think of a “solution” it involves acquiring some new educational credential is pretty much my point.

It’s not enough to be an honest, hard-working citizen who doesn’t do stupid stuff with his/her money.

But that’s what tens of millions of Americans are.  They couldn’t (or didn’t) succeed in our educational institutions but they are decent, honorable people who just want to work. 

40-50% (depending on the study) of college graduates can’t are unemployed.  And as of 2012, 284,000 college graduates were working at or below the minimum wage.

So, who’s going to hire someone with an 8th grade education when they can hire somebody with a master’s degree for the same pay?

The Bible says that If anyone will not work, neither shall he eat.  (2 Thessalonians 3: 10)

But what about those who will work, but can’t?

You can’t just walk off into the woods with an ax and a rifle and start clearing land and hunting game.   All of the land in America is either privately owned, municipally zoned, or protected by the office of something or other.

You can’t just walk into a store with a help wanted sign, give the owner a firm handshake and good eye contact, and start working.    The manager has to do a background check, a drug screen, and e-verify your citizenship; and that's only after you complete the application online and IF you make it through the automated screening process.

And if you have any of the following items on your record, it doesn’t much matter how much you’ve matured, changed, paid your debts, or proven yourself---- you’re screwed and burned.
·         felony conviction
·         revoked/ suspended driver’s license
·         drug use in the last 14-90 days (depending on the sensitivity of the screening instrument)
·         no current permanent address
·         no email address
·         bad credit report
·         no credit report
·         any conviction for “any offense other than a minor traffic violation”
·         less than 3 verifiable references
·         absent or spotty past job history

Doesn’t matter how hard you WILL work.  If you have to check “Yes” to any of the above boxes, you probably CAN’T work.

Contrary to the opinion of many, the chronically unemployed can’t just “get a job.”  And when the economy improves it won’t improve or the people whose resumes look like the resumes my grandfathers never had to write.

My grandfathers were decent, dignified, and dedicated men.  They went to church. They were married to the same woman all of their lives.  They owned guns and they paid their taxes.  They were all that an American is supposed to have to be.

But if they started off today, my grandfathers would be unemployed, or homeless, or criminals.

Now, this is the place where I tell you my solution.

This post is not a solution.  It is a lament.

Woe!  Woe unto the American who is JUST honest, hard-working, and won’t do stupid stuff with his money.

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.
Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church in Montgomery, Alabama, executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO) and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).
Email atgravestwo2@aol.com
To hear sermons, read devotions, and learn more about the ministry at Hall Memorial CME Church, visit www.hallmemorialcme.blogspot.com .
You can read more on Pastor Graves's personal blog at www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com  .

If this message helps or touches you, please help support this ministry. Send a donation of any amount by check or money order.
Mail all contributions to :
Hall Memorial CME Church
541 Seibles Road

Montgomery, AL 36116

Thursday, March 6, 2014

DANG! THAT'S SO RATCHET.

Some of the situations I deal with every day are ratchet.  They are.   They just ARE. 

Ratchet is a urban slang term derived from the older, more formal English word wretched, and meaning exactly the same thing:  bad, pitiful, deprived, depraved, miserable, etc., etc.

Does that mean that the circumstances are ratchet or that the people in the circumstances are ratchet?  My days are a mix of both.

I deal with some the most noble, generous, hard-working people I’ve ever met---- some of whom are homeless.  I also encounter some of the most selfish, profane, predatory, and arrogant people I’ve ever seen----- some of whom are in junior high school (and I don’t mean teachers).

When you walk into wretched, it’s there.  Whatever your political leanings, no matter what your position on the relevant social issue, the situation is what the situation is.  The choice of adjectives doesn’t alter reality.

Jesus said: For the poor you will have with you always; but Me you do not have always. (Matthew 26: 11; John 12: 8)

We usually stop quoting and thinking after the poor you will have with you always. At which point we throw up our hands in holy resignation and declare, “It is what it is.  Let’s go home.”   
Hold on there, Speedy.  Cross-reference and also read Mark 14: 7.

Jesus’ full statement was: For you have the poor with you always, and whenever you wish you may do them good; but Me you do not have always.  

It is what it is; but whenever you want to, you can do something about it.

You can either say, “Dang, this is so ratchet.  Somebody should do something,” and then pick up your bag and leave.
Or, you can say, “Dang! This is so ratchet.  I’m going to do something to help,” and open up your bag and get to work.

Especially if you claim to be a Christian, if you choose the first option----- that’s wretched.  That’s you being spiritually ratchet.

Because you say, ‘I am rich, have become wealthy, and have need of nothing’—and do not know that you are wretched, miserable, poor, blind, and naked (Revelations 3: 17)

I know how bad it is where I go.  I’m fully aware that many of those I want to see healed are suffering from self-inflicted wounds.  I’m conscious of the fact that I’m diving into an ocean of generational curses trying to save one drowning family at a time.  I see the hundreds of years of history and billions of dollars in economic interests with vested interest in the continued exploitation of people I’m trying to empower.

It’s wretched.  I know.

So I do what I do every day.  I pray and then I open up my bag and get to work.  That’s what Jesus told me to do for them.  That’s what Jesus did for my wretched/ ratchet soul.

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.
Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church in Montgomery, Alabama, executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO) and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).
Email atgravestwo2@aol.com
To hear sermons, read devotions, and learn more about the ministry at Hall Memorial CME Church, visit www.hallmemorialcme.blogspot.com .
You can read more on Pastor Graves's personal blog at www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com  .

If this message helps or touches you, please help support this ministry. Send a donation of any amount by check or money order.
Mail all contributions to :
Hall Memorial CME Church
541 Seibles Road

Montgomery, AL 36116

Sunday, November 10, 2013

BAD JUDGMENT, GOOD JUDGMENT, & TRUE FRIENDS

The effectiveness of the church out there in the world is constantly hampered by our issues here inside the church, so the Bible says that the time has come for judgment to begin at the house of God.  But Jesus also said, Judge not, that you be not judged.

How do we reconcile reconciling the apparent contradiction between the call to judgment and the call to grace?   The solution lies in a fresh understanding of  Biblical idea of friendship.

The message is called  BAD JUDGMENT, GOOD JUDGMENT, & TRUE FRIENDS.

Listen well.

---Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer, and consultant for education, ministry, and rural leadership development.

Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church and the executive director of SAYNO (Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization) in Montgomery, Alabama.

Call  334-288-0577
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Hall Memorial CME Church
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Wednesday, August 21, 2013

A WORD TO THE WISE. Proverbs 31: 13. "She's Got Work to Do"

Proverbs 31: 13     She seeks wool and flax, and willingly works with her hands.
Proverbs 31:13.  The American concept of a “stay at home mom” is fascinatingly unbiblical.  The Bible does not teach this idea--- at least not the way we generally interpret it in America.

The Biblical ideal is a woman who brings value to the family.  Yes, she is a woman who brings good, godly VALUES to the home; but right now I’m talking about how she brings personal, spiritual, emotional, and financial VALUE.

What the Bible depicts would be more accurately expressed by the phrase “WORK from home mom.” 

The virtuous woman of Proverbs 31 is an entrepreneur, a shrewd negotiator, a manger of resources.  She’s a BOSS.   And she loves the role.
She has domestic skills, but she is not a mindless domestic.  She is comfortable in the sewing room and in the boardroom.     (Which, if you think about it, is a pretty good complement to the ideal man who can afford a Mercedes but also mows the yard and changes the oil.)
The virtuous woman of Proverbs 31 works with her mind and with her hands  just as the man was doing when God made woman, back in Genesis chapter 2.  
God’s design for husband and God’s design for wife are perfectly matched to bring value to their home.
The Bible does not exalt the image of a woman just “staying” at home  because she isn’t allowed to go do anything.   Go back and read again Titus 2: 4, 5.  Older women are commanded to mentor younger women and to
… teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. (King James Version)
A “keeper,” not a stayer.  A “keeper” was a guardian, a protector, the commander of the gate, the inspector of goods, the first line of defense until the army could get there.  A boss. 
A wife’s job is to help her husband bring value to the home.   
Much love to those women who can do that from the home address.   But the value has to come in, even if you can’t “stay” at the house and get it.
(And that is the difference between a Biblical housewife and a cultural trophy wife.)
Sometimes a woman has to go beyond the home to get that value and bring it back.   She has to go bring it from afar. (Proverbs 31: 4)
But home is still homebase, still headquarters, still the place where she comes back to stand with her husband, pool what they have, and build something greater.
At least, that’s how the Bible puts it.

I’ve kept you long enough, sister.  Go on, girl.  You’ve got work to do.
--Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and leadership development. 
 
 
Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church in Montgomery, Alabama, executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO) and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).


To hear sermons, read devotions, and learn more about the ministry at Hall Memorial CME Church, visit www.hallmemorialcme.blogspot.com .

You can read more on Pastor Graves's personal blog at www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com  .
If this message helps or touches you, please help support this ministry. Send a donation of any amount by check or money order.
Mail all contributions to :
Hall Memorial CME Church
541 Seibles Road
Montgomery, AL 36116

Proverbs 31: 13. "She's Got Work to Do"

Proverbs 31: 13     She seeks wool and flax, and willingly works with her hands.

Proverbs 31:13.  The American concept of a “stay at home mom” is fascinatingly unbiblical.  The Bible does not teach this idea--- at least not the way we generally interpret it in America.
The Biblical ideal is a woman who brings value to the family.  Yes, she is a woman who brings good, godly VALUES to the home; but right now I’m talking about how she brings personal, spiritual, emotional, and financial VALUE.
 
What the Bible depicts would be more accurately expressed by the phrase “WORK from home mom.” 
 
The virtuous woman of Proverbs 31 is an entrepreneur, a shrewd negotiator, a manger of resources.  She’s a BOSS.   And she loves the role.

She has domestic skills, but she is not a mindless domestic.  She is comfortable in the sewing room and in the boardroom.     (Which, if you think about it, is a pretty good complement to the ideal man who can afford a Mercedes but also mows the yard and changes the oil.)

The virtuous woman of Proverbs 31 works with her mind and with her hands  just as the man was doing when God made woman, back in Genesis chapter 2.    God’s design for husband and God’s design for wife are perfectly matched to bring value to their home.

The Bible does not exalt the image of a woman just “staying” at home  because she isn’t allowed to go anywhere or do anything.   Go back and read again Titus 2: 4, 5.  Older women are commanded to mentor younger women and to
… teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. (King James Version)
A “keeper,” not a stayer.  A “keeper” was a guardian, a protector, the commander of the gate, the inspector of goods, the first line of defense until the army could get there.  A boss. 

A wife’s job is to help her husband bring value to the home.   

Much love to those women who can do that from the home address.   But the value has to come in, even if you can’t “stay” at the house and get it.
(And that is the difference between a Biblical housewife and a cultural trophy wife.)
 
Sometimes a woman has to go beyond the home to get that value and bring it back.   She has to go bring it from afar. (Proverbs 31: 4)
But home is still homebase, still headquarters, still the place where she comes back to stand with her husband, pool what they have, and build something greater.
At least, that’s how the Bible puts it.
 
I’ve kept you long enough, sister.  Go on, girl.  You’ve got work to do.
--Anderson T. Graves II   is a writer, community organizer and consultant for education, ministry, and leadership development.


Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church in Montgomery, Alabama, executive director of the Substance Abuse Youth Networking Organization (SAYNO) and director of rural leadership development for the National Institute for Human Development (NIHD).


To hear sermons, read devotions, and learn more about the ministry at Hall Memorial CME Church, visit www.hallmemorialcme.blogspot.com .

You can read more on Pastor Graves's personal blog at www.andersontgraves.blogspot.com  .
If this message helps or touches you, please help support this ministry. Send a donation of any amount by check or money order.
Mail all contributions to :
Hall Memorial CME Church
541 Seibles Road
Montgomery, AL 36116